Although JWs do lie and may justify lying with “Theocratic Reasoning” or “Theocratic Strategy”,
Okay..... let me set you straight here...... 'strategy' isn't taught at great lenghts like it was DECADES ago (I learn it as part of the 1975 mania)
I highly doubt majority of JWs (R&F) who came in after 1983 could even tell what the term meant or that we advocated the practice.
Majority of JWs have cognitive dissonance...
Majority of JWs have little knowledge of WTS History beyond whitewashed versions.
Majority of JWs at a door are simply eager to feel worthy and aren't intentionally lying to anyone but themselves.
While the WTS might be intentionally deceptive majority of JWs are not.
I get your JW experience but since you have never been a JW please do not try and apply broad application on subjects in which you have limited knowledge and experience.
That girl liked you but she has internal conflict due to the WTS......heck PM me her number and I will see if I can't wake her up for you!