Emancipate yourself from mental slavery , only we can free our minds -Bob Marley
Why struggle so hard to satisfy the criteria set forth by a group of people that hijack religion as a means of gaining authority over other people. If you are estranged now why would it be different when you are doing what they want? We can support and love you if you do what we want? Real love< the kind talked about by (ahem) JESUS doesnt need conditions to operate .