Seems like there are people (JW & non-JW) that doubt that two people of difference religious beliefs can overcome any and all obstacles in their path for love...not nesseccarily 'true love'. I've met her mother & the worst thing IS that she works across from where I live. Her mother educated me on thoughts of the relationship from her and the teaching perspective. Her mother has learned about me prior to our meeting, as a result her mother and I decide to let my girlfriend make the decision about the relationship. All I can say IS this can be the ULTIMATE TEST of love between two religion.
gdnubin
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Inter-faith Relationship outside JW
by gdnubin ini'm a catholic male,divorced w/one child from a previous marriage and my current girlfriend is a jw.
her family is also jw and i am trying to establish a relationship with her and be on good terms with her family.
anyone with a similar experience, please reply this message and tell me the result.. thanks.
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Inter-faith Relationship outside JW
by gdnubin ini'm a catholic male,divorced w/one child from a previous marriage and my current girlfriend is a jw.
her family is also jw and i am trying to establish a relationship with her and be on good terms with her family.
anyone with a similar experience, please reply this message and tell me the result.. thanks.
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gdnubin
Aud8, sorry I haven't replied your response. I wouldn't feel comfortable posting her email address on here. If you available to join me in chat session later day, I'd give it you you then. I told her that NO MATTER WHAT that our love will shine thru EVEN in our DARKEST moments. [:~)]
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Inter-faith Relationship outside JW
by gdnubin ini'm a catholic male,divorced w/one child from a previous marriage and my current girlfriend is a jw.
her family is also jw and i am trying to establish a relationship with her and be on good terms with her family.
anyone with a similar experience, please reply this message and tell me the result.. thanks.
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gdnubin
I spoke with my girlfriend and she kinda broke up with me Monday & wanted to be "just friends"...but after some time to think and I spoke with her last evening in person and we came to an understanding. We decided to keep the relationship and lose the labels/titles of the relationship(ie boyfriend/girlfriend) and keep everything else AS IS. :-) Only thing is, she thought it would be a good idea that her family not know of the relationship any further that what they knew of and leave it at that.
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Inter-faith Relationship outside JW
by gdnubin ini'm a catholic male,divorced w/one child from a previous marriage and my current girlfriend is a jw.
her family is also jw and i am trying to establish a relationship with her and be on good terms with her family.
anyone with a similar experience, please reply this message and tell me the result.. thanks.
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gdnubin
The problem I have is that: 1) I've know her before I knew that she was a JW and even after I found out I still accepted her. 2) Knowing some of the laws of JW and their teachings now, she's has lied to her family and to her congregation seeing that she gave in to the temptations of the flesh, WHICH goes AGAINST their teachings. AND, knowing this, she can't be accepted by a JW male knowing this. Her family has NO IDEA of this, and I'm trying to find a way for her to not be disfellowship from the congregation, not be disassociated from her family and save the relationship/fight any obstacle for her knowing that she consented to giving in to temptation, and risk alot in her life.
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Inter-faith Relationship outside JW
by gdnubin ini'm a catholic male,divorced w/one child from a previous marriage and my current girlfriend is a jw.
her family is also jw and i am trying to establish a relationship with her and be on good terms with her family.
anyone with a similar experience, please reply this message and tell me the result.. thanks.
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gdnubin
I'm NOT a practing Catholic either, but I find myself connecting more to baptist side of my parents mixed-faith. All I can say to you, is have FAITH and TRUST that she'll get to know, like and accept you for who you are and what your all about. Aud8, maybe you can help me get thru to my girlfriend 'cause she's trying to break up with me for she feels like she has DISHONORED her GOD. Even before I got with her, I accepted her before/after the fact of knowing her religion. I truly love and care about her and don't want to lose her, I'd like to chat with you later if you could email her seeing that your a JW and maybe get thru to her, I'm NOT asking her to stop being a JW, serving her GOD, loving or disassociating with her family, being disfellowshiped from the congregation, and NOT stop loving me.
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Inter-faith Relationship outside JW
by gdnubin ini'm a catholic male,divorced w/one child from a previous marriage and my current girlfriend is a jw.
her family is also jw and i am trying to establish a relationship with her and be on good terms with her family.
anyone with a similar experience, please reply this message and tell me the result.. thanks.
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gdnubin
I'm not saying that. My ex-wife and I are from two different religions and we both agreed that our son can go with either one of us to service but ultimately it will be his decision as to what religion that he choose. And if my girlfriend and I have a child together I think the same rule should apply. That's the way it was when I was growing up in a mixed-faith family.
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Inter-faith Relationship outside JW
by gdnubin ini'm a catholic male,divorced w/one child from a previous marriage and my current girlfriend is a jw.
her family is also jw and i am trying to establish a relationship with her and be on good terms with her family.
anyone with a similar experience, please reply this message and tell me the result.. thanks.
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gdnubin
Larc,In reply to your message, if we were to work things out and get married and have children, I'd say let the child decide what religion he/she wants to worship.
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Inter-faith Relationship outside JW
by gdnubin ini'm a catholic male,divorced w/one child from a previous marriage and my current girlfriend is a jw.
her family is also jw and i am trying to establish a relationship with her and be on good terms with her family.
anyone with a similar experience, please reply this message and tell me the result.. thanks.
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gdnubin
I know for a fact that she is TOTALLY committted to the religion and so is her family. My family have welcomed her and accepted her for who she is and what she's all about. She didn't tell her family about me, and moved in with me. Intimate feeling between us have been shared. I am looking for a long-term relationship,and I know that acting on such feeling can banish/disassociate her from the religion and her family, from what I know of the religion. Now, she moved out of here into her own place to kinda keep the peace between her religion, her family and me. This is her first relationship, I put my heart into the relationship and to some degree so did she; now she feels that she has dishonored her GOD and is considering breaking up with me because she's gone against the teachings. My thoery is seeing that we BOTH acted on the feelings that she won't be accepted by a JW male, her family if they found out, or the religion; so it would make more sense to me for her to work thru the problem with her religion and the relationship.
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Inter-faith Relationship outside JW
by gdnubin ini'm a catholic male,divorced w/one child from a previous marriage and my current girlfriend is a jw.
her family is also jw and i am trying to establish a relationship with her and be on good terms with her family.
anyone with a similar experience, please reply this message and tell me the result.. thanks.
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gdnubin
I'm a Catholic male,divorced w/one child from a previous marriage and my current girlfriend is a JW. Her family is also JW and I am trying to establish a relationship with her and be on good terms with her family. Anyone with a similar experience, please reply this message and tell me the result.
Thanks.