Welcome look forward to hearing more from you.
I was in the same situation as you and as long as i didn't say anything bad about the J.W's thing were Ok between my wife and i.
However i stared saying a few things then got very vocal after i'd done some research online and that was the end of our marriage.
Best thing to happen to me as i'm totally free of all things J.W and made some TRUE friends who don't judge me on how much field service i do or how i comment at meetings ect.
If you want your marriage to stay intact i suggest no matter how hard it is say nothing bad about the J.W's even if it is true.
Karter.