Posts by vivalavida

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I met a 104 year old man today
by Bad_Wolf in
1. watchtower
2. beliefs
i was at a mall trying on shoes and this old man is in a wheelchair near me.

says how he thought those shoes were sharp and he had never worn brown shoes before and that he is 104 years old.

i said no way and asked what year he was born.
vivalavida

It is a complete mess!!!
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Can halluciengins reveal what has been hidden from us and bring more answers?
by Bad_Wolf in
1. watchtower
2. beliefs
halluciengins, and several recent studies pointed out how we us only certain sections of our brain depending what is happening.

but some of them, like acid, make your entire brain turn on.

heightened senses.
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Interesting stuff!
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What is behind your choice of forum user name?
by stuckinarut2 in
1. jw
2. friends
just curious how we all think.. what prompted or influenced your choice of username for this forum?.

there are some really amazing names, and it would be great to hear the stories behind them.... mine was nothing fancy.

i just felt "stuck in a rut too" along with so many others.
vivalavida

In Spanish it means either: "Live Life" or the expression of acclaim "Long Live Life!", depending on the context. After leaving the JWs both meaning were suitable so, having Spanish as my first language, I just went with it because I was decided to be free and enjoy my life to the fullest!
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How ballroom dancing helped our exit
by Finally Left in
1. watchtower
2. beliefs
just wanted to say hello and thank you for all of your comments.

when i finally figured out this was not the truth it was nice to know i wasn't the only one - it was a surprise to learn how many there are.

february was my last month of service after 43 active years.
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This reminds me of a friend I have in sweden who is also an xjw, in fact, he's the only person I've helped learn TTATT. The thing with him is that he comes from latin america and moved to sweden to improve his life. This was almos 20 years ago and it actually has worked out allright for him so far.
His biggest problem was that for years he tried to "integrate" with the swedish congregation there to no avail. Then he tried the spanish cong., same results. In fact, he used to say that in Sweden the brothers only knew about love from what they read in the mags.
After a while, looking for some type of emotional comfort, he started salsa dancing. To make a long story short, even though he's still alone in a strange country, what keeps him going is his salsa dancing community, he goes dancing at least 3 times a week. It's definitely much more fun to go dancing than to meetings...
I guess I should start doing something like that as well. Definitely not a bad idea.
Vivalavida
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" We don't need no university education"
by The Rebel in
1. jw
2. friends
i left school at 16, because i was studying and getting the best " university education" in the world.

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how did the theocratic ministry school benefit you?.
vivalavida
In my case, I must say that it definitely helped me in several ways.
1. Like others mentioned, public speaking.
2. Not really being afraid to go to a person and start talking to them. I mean, I knocked on so many doors and "tried" to talk to people. When it worked, I did have excellent conversations which very often deviated from the religious subjects we were peddling. Interestingly, Tim Ferriss in his "4 Hour Work Week" book has an exercise that is very similar to doing street preaching work. You know, go talk to people you do not know out there to build your confidence. Obviously a completely different goal and message, but exactly the same action. Lol!
3. It did teach me to focus on one thing for more than one hour. This I have used to learn about so many different things in life, without having to actually go to school or something. My kids (who have never ever been to a kingdom hall) cannot concentrate on something for more than 10 minutes or less. They cannot understand how I watch educational youtube videos for longer than one hour, just to mention an example.
So, I would say that yes, I did get some benefits from the TMS and the field work. Although, if I take a look from a broader perspective, the disadvantages are much bigger than those few benefits.
My two cents after a long time of inactivity... lol
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WELL BEARDS ARE STILL A NO NO!!!!!!
by DwainBowman in
1. watchtower
2. beliefs
well beards are still a no no!!!!!!.

in a new letter from the branch/gb nut's, beards are not acceptable in the us branch area!!!!!!.

my eldub brother in law, shared this today.
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Germany also has no problem with beards "mostly". I was in a Saarbruecken congregation where the Watchtower conductor sported a full beard. No problem. It is not a general thing though. It is more the exception than the rule.
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At last something about JWs on a German news site.
by Driving Force in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
for anybody who understands german.. http://www.n-tv.de/panorama/masha-16-jahre-zeugin-jehovas-article18689741.html.

it is quite rare that a german news site actually puts something up about jws, after all they are insignificant from a newsworthy point of view.

but i like the fact that they have put this up..
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Very well balanced article. But I bet the only reason it got published is because of the number of views she received in YT. Ich wünsche ihr das Beste!
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Is JW.org being played?
by jw07 in
1. watchtower
2. beliefs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wackkicmf4k.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b5lsyndc1me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fnk52bu92oe.
vivalavida

Thanks for this collection showing the craziness of the WTS.
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Germany-Trial Over Abuse Among Jehovah's Witnesses. At least two boys were raped...
by AndersonsInfo in
1. watchtower
2. child-abuse
trial over abuse among jehovah’s witnesses.

at least two boys were raped in the beliefs community at greifwald.

by cornelia meerkatz.
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In the kingdom hall and during a meeting!!! Wow sometimes it's hard to grasp what these predators are willing to do to engage in their attacks. What annoys me is that he will get only 1 year and 2 months prison time. It's unbelievable that if it's tax evasion or some hacking of some company's data then the prison times are much longer. This world is upside down, really!
vlv
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"well beyond the intent of the scriptures" 7:44
by biblexaminer in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
if you have the jw app running on your tablet, watch the latest (may) governing broadcast and hear tony the jackass, and when you get to 7 minutes and 44 seconds ...hit the pause button.. read the words at the bottom of the screen as per the jw app close captioning.. "well beyond the intent of the scriptures" .

he is describing the governing body past, like the ghost of christmas past.

yes, the governing body past were a bunch of freaking yahoo's violating 1 cor.
vivalavida

Is 1914 part of the EARLY 1900s?
Just wondering!