I think if children were disciplined in the right way, there would fewer problems as teenagers, but who can say what the right way is. Guess it differs for all children. When my 2 kids were growing up I used to spank them and took away some of the things they liked to do. But I found out that a good old fashioned spanking with abelt or flyswatter did more good than anything. My son reads this site, so he will get a kick out of remembering that. Anyway, they are both now really well adjusted adults with kids of their own and they turned out just fine, so spank away. It does'nt hurt a thing
She used to get pissed at me about something, and if she didn't have anything in her hand, I'd see her looking around for whatever she could get her hands on. Usually, she would reach down and take off her flip-flop and start swinging. She did it for the right reasons though, and I don't begrudge her that she did it, in fact I love her very much for how she raised me, JW or not.