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  Just informed the sisters at my door.

  by wozadummy in

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  well it's a beauutiful day and it got better in the last hour .. two sisters and a daughter came to our door witnessing and after what i told them i think they are very thankful.. they first spoke to my wife and she told them why she is da'd over the societys stand on them protecting pedophiles ,but she had to go shopping and left me with it.. we had a meaningful discussion and i was able to enlighten them on the facts of the society and the recent cases settled in court in america ,and of course they did'nt know about it .

  it came out that they both had observed the society hiding things and especially the pedophiles in the congos.. well then i explained that at least one is in their congregation and one sister said she knew of the same one because an elder had told her to watch out for him because he was seen touching and loitering around one of her children .

  well i said that's pretty terrible that a pedophile has to touch your child before an elder will warn you of the pedophile 's history.. then the other sister who is a newly baptised witness asked the other sister why she had'nt warned her too.

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  thats great well done
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  Just informed the sisters at my door.

  by wozadummy in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  well it's a beauutiful day and it got better in the last hour .. two sisters and a daughter came to our door witnessing and after what i told them i think they are very thankful.. they first spoke to my wife and she told them why she is da'd over the societys stand on them protecting pedophiles ,but she had to go shopping and left me with it.. we had a meaningful discussion and i was able to enlighten them on the facts of the society and the recent cases settled in court in america ,and of course they did'nt know about it .

  it came out that they both had observed the society hiding things and especially the pedophiles in the congos.. well then i explained that at least one is in their congregation and one sister said she knew of the same one because an elder had told her to watch out for him because he was seen touching and loitering around one of her children .

  well i said that's pretty terrible that a pedophile has to touch your child before an elder will warn you of the pedophile 's history.. then the other sister who is a newly baptised witness asked the other sister why she had'nt warned her too.

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  looloo

  that is great , you have given me an idea, i had asked the elders to make sure i was made a do not call , while our court case was going on but can i retract that so that j ws call on me again so that i can tell them the truth.
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  child abuse cover up

  by looloo in

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  2. child-abuse

  i wonder if anyon on hre can give me some advice , my daughter was abused by an ex jw , it came out in court that he had abused other childrn when he was serving as a ministerial servant years earlier , the elders knw about those victims and never reported him to the police , the judge called it a coverup , there were no press in the room so it never made it in the papers which i was very angry about .

  had they reported him years ago he would never have been able to abuse my daughter , and i want an apoligy , i have tried to discuss it with the elders but they all mak out they knew nothing , which makes m wonder who it was that reported the abuse to london hq bethel as that was said in court .

  do you think if i wrot to them we would get an apology, his wife who used to be a close friend is supporting him, and his jw family , i feel devastated by this, the cps did not persue the 8 charges for my daughter due to lack of evidence , even though he took my daughter and another victim to the same place, which his wife must just think is a huge coincidence, they critise the catholics for keeping hush hush about abuse but do the same themselves , i wish i could talk to another mum of a child who was abused by a jw , i cant talk to the other mums involved in our case as i think they have been told not to talk to me , i am not a jw but am married to a disfellowshipped man .

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  looloo

  thankyou flipper at least there are some kind and caring people on here , thankyou for your advice
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  child abuse cover up

  by looloo in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  i wonder if anyon on hre can give me some advice , my daughter was abused by an ex jw , it came out in court that he had abused other childrn when he was serving as a ministerial servant years earlier , the elders knw about those victims and never reported him to the police , the judge called it a coverup , there were no press in the room so it never made it in the papers which i was very angry about .

  had they reported him years ago he would never have been able to abuse my daughter , and i want an apoligy , i have tried to discuss it with the elders but they all mak out they knew nothing , which makes m wonder who it was that reported the abuse to london hq bethel as that was said in court .

  do you think if i wrot to them we would get an apology, his wife who used to be a close friend is supporting him, and his jw family , i feel devastated by this, the cps did not persue the 8 charges for my daughter due to lack of evidence , even though he took my daughter and another victim to the same place, which his wife must just think is a huge coincidence, they critise the catholics for keeping hush hush about abuse but do the same themselves , i wish i could talk to another mum of a child who was abused by a jw , i cant talk to the other mums involved in our case as i think they have been told not to talk to me , i am not a jw but am married to a disfellowshipped man .

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  i dont want to have it in the paper anymore , i care about a lot of people who are jws and would not want to upset them , just because im cross about it not having been reported to the police years ago , dos not mean i dislike all jws but thanx for your advice anyway the only jws i dont like are certain ones that are opinionated know alls who think everyone who has a problem with the org even with very good reason like myself are nasty apostates how insulting .
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  child abuse cover up

  by looloo in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  i wonder if anyon on hre can give me some advice , my daughter was abused by an ex jw , it came out in court that he had abused other childrn when he was serving as a ministerial servant years earlier , the elders knw about those victims and never reported him to the police , the judge called it a coverup , there were no press in the room so it never made it in the papers which i was very angry about .

  had they reported him years ago he would never have been able to abuse my daughter , and i want an apoligy , i have tried to discuss it with the elders but they all mak out they knew nothing , which makes m wonder who it was that reported the abuse to london hq bethel as that was said in court .

  do you think if i wrot to them we would get an apology, his wife who used to be a close friend is supporting him, and his jw family , i feel devastated by this, the cps did not persue the 8 charges for my daughter due to lack of evidence , even though he took my daughter and another victim to the same place, which his wife must just think is a huge coincidence, they critise the catholics for keeping hush hush about abuse but do the same themselves , i wish i could talk to another mum of a child who was abused by a jw , i cant talk to the other mums involved in our case as i think they have been told not to talk to me , i am not a jw but am married to a disfellowshipped man .

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  i came on this site for some support and i have received some until i read your post , thankyou so much for another kick in the teeth, you obviously know so much more about this case than i do, you must have been sat in the court room , or perhaps not because if you had been you would have heard the defence lawyer say to the judge when trying to get his client off from a prison sentence that he had a support network in his home town of two brothers and sisters and a wife who were supporting him and he sees them all the time . there were other jws in court to hear that statement including two elders , and yes he has been disfellowshipped for 10 years , why is it so hard to believe that he would have family who support him just because they are jws , and another thing the judge did not through it out of court , the charges for my daughter were not persued by the cps because they worried about the defence destroying her in court , cases are dropped at the last minute all the time because if the cps are not certain of getting a conviction yhey dont want to risk getting a not guilty verdict , which would have been worse than getting the charges dropped . i hope someone you love never gets abused and heartless people like yourself make hints like something dosnt ring true here , how could you be so cruel , im sure jehovah is real proud of you .
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  child abuse cover up

  by looloo in

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  2. child-abuse

  i wonder if anyon on hre can give me some advice , my daughter was abused by an ex jw , it came out in court that he had abused other childrn when he was serving as a ministerial servant years earlier , the elders knw about those victims and never reported him to the police , the judge called it a coverup , there were no press in the room so it never made it in the papers which i was very angry about .

  had they reported him years ago he would never have been able to abuse my daughter , and i want an apoligy , i have tried to discuss it with the elders but they all mak out they knew nothing , which makes m wonder who it was that reported the abuse to london hq bethel as that was said in court .

  do you think if i wrot to them we would get an apology, his wife who used to be a close friend is supporting him, and his jw family , i feel devastated by this, the cps did not persue the 8 charges for my daughter due to lack of evidence , even though he took my daughter and another victim to the same place, which his wife must just think is a huge coincidence, they critise the catholics for keeping hush hush about abuse but do the same themselves , i wish i could talk to another mum of a child who was abused by a jw , i cant talk to the other mums involved in our case as i think they have been told not to talk to me , i am not a jw but am married to a disfellowshipped man .

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  looloo

  i have been on the silent lambs site , thats how i found this site thankyou anyway x
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  child abuse cover up

  by looloo in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  i wonder if anyon on hre can give me some advice , my daughter was abused by an ex jw , it came out in court that he had abused other childrn when he was serving as a ministerial servant years earlier , the elders knw about those victims and never reported him to the police , the judge called it a coverup , there were no press in the room so it never made it in the papers which i was very angry about .

  had they reported him years ago he would never have been able to abuse my daughter , and i want an apoligy , i have tried to discuss it with the elders but they all mak out they knew nothing , which makes m wonder who it was that reported the abuse to london hq bethel as that was said in court .

  do you think if i wrot to them we would get an apology, his wife who used to be a close friend is supporting him, and his jw family , i feel devastated by this, the cps did not persue the 8 charges for my daughter due to lack of evidence , even though he took my daughter and another victim to the same place, which his wife must just think is a huge coincidence, they critise the catholics for keeping hush hush about abuse but do the same themselves , i wish i could talk to another mum of a child who was abused by a jw , i cant talk to the other mums involved in our case as i think they have been told not to talk to me , i am not a jw but am married to a disfellowshipped man .

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  why cant people just say sorry we messed up , we should have reported him years ago , it could make the pain not so bad if that happened , but i could count on one hand the jws who i used to be friends with who have shown the care , it is a good thing that i have true friends in the world i can count on , we have no closure unless we get an apology , the police told me i could write a book when i gave my statement , the odd thing is if i did no jws would be allowed to read it because i would be called a liar, when i would not have to put any lies in it at all to make it a shocking read. i realizd when i read a book about a cult called the children of god , that jws are very similar in thier talk and brainwashing and what a fool i was to take my kids there, i will carry that guilt forever
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  child abuse cover up

  by looloo in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  i wonder if anyon on hre can give me some advice , my daughter was abused by an ex jw , it came out in court that he had abused other childrn when he was serving as a ministerial servant years earlier , the elders knw about those victims and never reported him to the police , the judge called it a coverup , there were no press in the room so it never made it in the papers which i was very angry about .

  had they reported him years ago he would never have been able to abuse my daughter , and i want an apoligy , i have tried to discuss it with the elders but they all mak out they knew nothing , which makes m wonder who it was that reported the abuse to london hq bethel as that was said in court .

  do you think if i wrot to them we would get an apology, his wife who used to be a close friend is supporting him, and his jw family , i feel devastated by this, the cps did not persue the 8 charges for my daughter due to lack of evidence , even though he took my daughter and another victim to the same place, which his wife must just think is a huge coincidence, they critise the catholics for keeping hush hush about abuse but do the same themselves , i wish i could talk to another mum of a child who was abused by a jw , i cant talk to the other mums involved in our case as i think they have been told not to talk to me , i am not a jw but am married to a disfellowshipped man .

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  yes i do have a court transcript but dont think i could cope going public , but i do want to warn others not to get involved with them , iwas told when i got involved with them that if someone admits to a crime they tell them to go to the police , that was obviously not true and my daughter is going to pay the price and has done for years for me taking her to the kingdom hall in the first place , i feel so bad
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  they do not always report child abuse to the police

  by looloo in

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  2. child-abuse

  that is why my daughter got abused , because nobody in th org bothered to report the min servant abusing children in the congregation to th police , im so angry.

  he was even allowed to have girls go for sleep overs when they knew what he had done with his first victim , the judge reffered to the coverup in court .

  have we had an apology for not having reported him years ago , no we have not , the elders should also have warned parents about him when they forgave his first abuse , then he went on to abuse again and again for years right under thier noses , while he was being monitered as they call it , they did a grand job of protecting the flock .

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  that is why my daughter got abused , because nobody in th org bothered to report the min servant abusing children in the congregation to th police , im so angry. he was even allowed to have girls go for sleep overs when they knew what he had done with his first victim , the judge reffered to the coverup in court . have we had an apology for not having reported him years ago , no we have not , the elders should also have warned parents about him when they forgave his first abuse , then he went on to abuse again and again for years right under thier noses , while he was being monitered as they call it , they did a grand job of protecting the flock .
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  child abuse cover up

  by looloo in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  i wonder if anyon on hre can give me some advice , my daughter was abused by an ex jw , it came out in court that he had abused other childrn when he was serving as a ministerial servant years earlier , the elders knw about those victims and never reported him to the police , the judge called it a coverup , there were no press in the room so it never made it in the papers which i was very angry about .

  had they reported him years ago he would never have been able to abuse my daughter , and i want an apoligy , i have tried to discuss it with the elders but they all mak out they knew nothing , which makes m wonder who it was that reported the abuse to london hq bethel as that was said in court .

  do you think if i wrot to them we would get an apology, his wife who used to be a close friend is supporting him, and his jw family , i feel devastated by this, the cps did not persue the 8 charges for my daughter due to lack of evidence , even though he took my daughter and another victim to the same place, which his wife must just think is a huge coincidence, they critise the catholics for keeping hush hush about abuse but do the same themselves , i wish i could talk to another mum of a child who was abused by a jw , i cant talk to the other mums involved in our case as i think they have been told not to talk to me , i am not a jw but am married to a disfellowshipped man .

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  looloo

  i wonder if anyon on hre can give me some advice , my daughter was abused by an ex jw , it came out in court that he had abused other childrn when he was serving as a ministerial servant years earlier , the elders knw about those victims and never reported him to the police , the judge called it a coverup , there were no press in the room so it never made it in the papers which i was very angry about . had they reported him years ago he would never have been able to abuse my daughter , and i want an apoligy , i have tried to discuss it with the elders but they all mak out they knew nothing , which makes m wonder who it was that reported the abuse to london hq bethel as that was said in court . do you think if i wrot to them we would get an apology, his wife who used to be a close friend is supporting him, and his jw family , i feel devastated by this, the cps did not persue the 8 charges for my daughter due to lack of evidence , even though he took my daughter and another victim to the same place, which his wife must just think is a huge coincidence, they critise the catholics for keeping hush hush about abuse but do the same themselves , i wish i could talk to another mum of a child who was abused by a jw , i cant talk to the other mums involved in our case as i think they have been told not to talk to me , i am not a jw but am married to a disfellowshipped man . th abuser did get sent to prison at least for the ther victims .