144001,
your main point is clear as crystal, and was a very harrowing point for me as I discussed this issue with others. It wouldn't matter that a million judges agreed on the same point, and the law, in this case, does appear unfair to me too. It's important to note that no one blames Mr. Schiavo for moving on with his life, but it is curious that he also retained the right to make the most important decision for the woman: the law considered her dead long before the tube was removed; the family was deprived of their wish to take care of her no matter what. That is curious. Many people, if not most, disagree. But it is curious.
And, just so you know:
I made the mistake of reading your first post ont his thread while drinking coffee... of course, some of it ended on my table... very funny