I've gone to counseling. All hey do is listen to you. They never really offer me any advice or anything...
Posts by cognac
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135I Think My Marriage Is Over...
by cognac ini know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .
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I Think My Marriage Is Over...
by cognac ini know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .
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cognac
He's been talking to some girl on FB and she sent him a message saying she loved him... At first i thought he was just talking innocently not realizing he was leading her on (which i was still mad about) but lately hes been really sneaky about everything. Then I found out she was messaging him again and he unblocked her.
We share the same iPod and the messages beep so I saw it. Wasn't spying or anything but now I think I should...
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I Think My Marriage Is Over...
by cognac ini know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .
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cognac
I know exactly what happened... He thinks I'm going to die at the big A and wants to be with someone he can live forever with...
We have two girls, ages 3 and 1... I really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now I really don't think so... Not sure what to do...
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130 Million Babies Born Each Year
by cognac inaccording to the unfpa.. so, i really don't get the whole "trying to get everyone to see jehovah" thing.
even if they got a million more people a year, that wouldn't make up for all the other all these babies born who won't get warned at all.
so, why wouldn't the big a come sooner then later?.
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cognac
According to the UNFPA.
So, I really don't get the whole "trying to get everyone to see Jehovah" thing. Even if they got a million more people a year, that wouldn't make up for all the other all these babies born who won't get warned at all. So, why wouldn't the big A come sooner then later?
This doesn't make sense at all. Anyone know the JW rationale for this?
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Stay At Home Moms/Dads
by cognac ini have a 3 and 1 year old.
hubby is a stay at home dad and i take care of the bills.
i have to, cause instead of working on his career when he was younger, he decided to pioneer- that is something that now i have to pay the price for which really sucks.. i feel that since i pay the bills, it's his job to cook and do all of the cleaning.
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cognac
Oh, and he's motivated sometimes but not a real lot... I don't know what his plan is in a few years...
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Stay At Home Moms/Dads
by cognac ini have a 3 and 1 year old.
hubby is a stay at home dad and i take care of the bills.
i have to, cause instead of working on his career when he was younger, he decided to pioneer- that is something that now i have to pay the price for which really sucks.. i feel that since i pay the bills, it's his job to cook and do all of the cleaning.
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cognac
Lost- you are right. I'm bitter in that I feel like I have no choice and no back up plan...
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Stay At Home Moms/Dads
by cognac ini have a 3 and 1 year old.
hubby is a stay at home dad and i take care of the bills.
i have to, cause instead of working on his career when he was younger, he decided to pioneer- that is something that now i have to pay the price for which really sucks.. i feel that since i pay the bills, it's his job to cook and do all of the cleaning.
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cognac
He does some cleaning and cooks sometimes.
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Stay At Home Moms/Dads
by cognac ini have a 3 and 1 year old.
hubby is a stay at home dad and i take care of the bills.
i have to, cause instead of working on his career when he was younger, he decided to pioneer- that is something that now i have to pay the price for which really sucks.. i feel that since i pay the bills, it's his job to cook and do all of the cleaning.
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cognac
I have a 3 and 1 year old. Hubby is a stay at home Dad and I take care of the bills. I have to, cause instead of working on his career when he was younger, he decided to pioneer- that is something that now I have to pay the price for which really sucks.
I feel that since I pay the bills, it's his job to cook and do all of the cleaning. He has all this time to go out and do what he wants, go on Facebook all the time, etc, I don't feel like I should have to have do do any of that.
I feel like I get taken advantaged of. When I struggle and say I need his help financially, it's like he doesn't care at all and it's not his problem. He tells me, "yup, I can get a job, but we will have to sell the house and move into a trailer".
It's like he just doesn't care at all and I have to figure it out. Every morning I wake up, and he gets to sleep another 3 hours while I go to work. Then, I find out he spends all this time on the computer. I come home and the house is a mess.
I'm beginning to get really bitter towards him. Am I being unrealistic?
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Thinking of becoming a JW.
by Kate82 inhi,.
i am new to here so please be bear with me.. i have always believed in god, but was never baptised, my parents wanted me to make up my own mind religon wise.. i am thinking of becoming a jw and am just needing some advice on how to do this, bible study and jw beliefs.
also do jw say grace and how.. i am greatful of any help.. thanks.
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cognac
Well, I think you have to get a little bit more of a plan in place. It might be a good idea to start a thread on things to do to help loneliness and depression.
Here are some ideas that I have done in the past to help me battling the same things:
1. I went to meetup.com and went out with some really nice groups of people with the same interests as me.
2. Exercise - That really helps with depression
3. Get something regular with the therapist.
4. Change your diet. Too much unhealthy food can contribute to depression.
Ok, that's all I can think of now, but get really active in starting a plan. Even if it's just one regular thing to start with to make yourself happier.
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Thinking of becoming a JW.
by Kate82 inhi,.
i am new to here so please be bear with me.. i have always believed in god, but was never baptised, my parents wanted me to make up my own mind religon wise.. i am thinking of becoming a jw and am just needing some advice on how to do this, bible study and jw beliefs.
also do jw say grace and how.. i am greatful of any help.. thanks.
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cognac
Hi Kate82!
Have you been to therapy for your depression?