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  How old are you?

  by sooner7nc in

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  post your age...only if you want to.

  do it anyway.. i'm 42..

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  I Think My Marriage Is Over...

  by cognac in

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  i know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .

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  Thank you everyone. I'll look at that site L-Q. And, yah, I'm keeping quite about it. When I confronted him the last time he just got sneaky afterwards...
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  I Think My Marriage Is Over...

  by cognac in

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  i know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .

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  After the 1st time I caught him he started logging off. Then, he forgot to the other day...
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  I Think My Marriage Is Over...

  by cognac in

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  i know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .

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  Thank you l-q. Not sure what to do. I'm not really happy in this marriage, but, I don't want to break up the family either...
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  I Think My Marriage Is Over...

  by cognac in

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  i know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .

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  cognac

  I just don't think he can live with somebody who is going to die on him... I think he thinks its a waste of time to be close to somebody he's not going to be with forever. He just wants to get the inevitable over with so he he move on...
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  I Think My Marriage Is Over...

  by cognac in

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  i know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .

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  cognac

  I've gone to counseling. All hey do is listen to you. They never really offer me any advice or anything...
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  I Think My Marriage Is Over...

  by cognac in

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  i know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .

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  He's been talking to some girl on FB and she sent him a message saying she loved him... At first i thought he was just talking innocently not realizing he was leading her on (which i was still mad about) but lately hes been really sneaky about everything. Then I found out she was messaging him again and he unblocked her.

  We share the same iPod and the messages beep so I saw it. Wasn't spying or anything but now I think I should...
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  I Think My Marriage Is Over...

  by cognac in

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  i know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .

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  cognac

  I know exactly what happened... He thinks I'm going to die at the big A and wants to be with someone he can live forever with...

  We have two girls, ages 3 and 1... I really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now I really don't think so... Not sure what to do...
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  130 Million Babies Born Each Year

  by cognac in

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  according to the unfpa.. so, i really don't get the whole "trying to get everyone to see jehovah" thing.

  even if they got a million more people a year, that wouldn't make up for all the other all these babies born who won't get warned at all.

  so, why wouldn't the big a come sooner then later?.

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  cognac

  According to the UNFPA.

  So, I really don't get the whole "trying to get everyone to see Jehovah" thing. Even if they got a million more people a year, that wouldn't make up for all the other all these babies born who won't get warned at all. So, why wouldn't the big A come sooner then later?

  This doesn't make sense at all. Anyone know the JW rationale for this?
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  Stay At Home Moms/Dads

  by cognac in

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  i have a 3 and 1 year old.

  hubby is a stay at home dad and i take care of the bills.

  i have to, cause instead of working on his career when he was younger, he decided to pioneer- that is something that now i have to pay the price for which really sucks.. i feel that since i pay the bills, it's his job to cook and do all of the cleaning.

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  Oh, and he's motivated sometimes but not a real lot... I don't know what his plan is in a few years...