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  My husband deleted me as a friend on FaceBook

  by cognac in

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  after this whole thing with him talking to this other girl on fb, now he deleted me as a friend.

  i have his username and password.

  it's like, he doesn't want this marriage to work at all.. i don't even have it in me to argue with him.

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  I don't get the feeling he's moved to end game. I've been watching him closely. Now, after thinking about it for a bit I think he deleted me cause he didn't want me to see him posting. I made it clear after the time a girl sent him a message saying that she loved him that I didn't want him on facebook for awhile. He doesn't like to be controlled, so deleted me so I just wouldn't know he was on.

  and I logged onto his account, no messages from her. Seems like one of us piss the other one off, and then it just spirals into this domino effect. But now, I'm kinda over it and not really reacting and it seems to have changed things a little. At least it ends that domino thing.

  I really don't want a divorce. I'm just trying to work things out in my mind.
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  My husband deleted me as a friend on FaceBook

  by cognac in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  after this whole thing with him talking to this other girl on fb, now he deleted me as a friend.

  i have his username and password.

  it's like, he doesn't want this marriage to work at all.. i don't even have it in me to argue with him.

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  cognac

  That's the point, our communication is terrible. He just got back on his ADD meds, that usually helps...
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  My husband deleted me as a friend on FaceBook

  by cognac in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  after this whole thing with him talking to this other girl on fb, now he deleted me as a friend.

  i have his username and password.

  it's like, he doesn't want this marriage to work at all.. i don't even have it in me to argue with him.

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  I asked him about it, he denied it. Whatever...
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  Yesterday Grandpa died a faithful JW.... or was he.

  by cyberjesus in

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  2. friends

  yesterday at 3 am my grandfather.. 95 more or less... passed away after a heart attack... i got the call at 8 am.

  so i am the oldest grandson (out of 40) he was faithful, (thats what they want to say) reality is he wasnt, he cursed, he drank, he had plenty of women during his life.. he was an elder at some point and he was ultra good with everyone.

  he had a heart of gold... he treated me as his son, he never cared about my status.

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  I'm so sorry for your loss...
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  My husband deleted me as a friend on FaceBook

  by cognac in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  after this whole thing with him talking to this other girl on fb, now he deleted me as a friend.

  i have his username and password.

  it's like, he doesn't want this marriage to work at all.. i don't even have it in me to argue with him.

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  cognac

  After this whole thing with him talking to this other girl on FB, now he deleted me as a friend. I have his username and password. It's like, he doesn't want this marriage to work at all.

  I don't even have it in me to argue with him. I'm exhausted...
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  Publishers Need A Background Check Before Moving To My Kingdom Hall.

  by AuntConnie in

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  background check first.. .

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  "nobody could imagine the elder's wife handing out candies, coloring books and toys to the good little children"

  You could be considered spiritually weak for handing these nonspiritual items out at the meetings. How would you like it if people looked at you as weak because of this?
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  How did you feel making your first post here?

  by cognac in

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  i was scared sh*tless.

  i stayed home from work for four days scared to go out of my house thinking god would strike me down by lightening if was wrong with my thoughts... i couldn't sleep at all.... but i had to take that first step... as scary as it was....

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  "I was still nervous that coming on here was some sort of trick"

  Troubled- I thought the same thing!

  think about it- did you still believe JWs had the truth for those 15 years?

  vid and arwin- your posts makes me wonder how many come on here active in the truth and find out ttatt...
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  How did you feel making your first post here?

  by cognac in

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  i was scared sh*tless.

  i stayed home from work for four days scared to go out of my house thinking god would strike me down by lightening if was wrong with my thoughts... i couldn't sleep at all.... but i had to take that first step... as scary as it was....

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  This is so interesting!

  Satanus and Mamo- you should do an official introduction thread!
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  How did you feel making your first post here?

  by cognac in

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  i was scared sh*tless.

  i stayed home from work for four days scared to go out of my house thinking god would strike me down by lightening if was wrong with my thoughts... i couldn't sleep at all.... but i had to take that first step... as scary as it was....

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  cognac

  I was scared sh*tless. I stayed home from work for four days scared to go out of my house thinking god would strike me down by lightening if was wrong with my thoughts... I couldn't sleep at all...

  But I had to take that first step... As scary as it was...
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  I had some fun today.

  by Defianttruth in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i took the kids to a park at the center of our town today.

  i say some inappropriately dressed people, and decided to investigate.

  i keep a close eye on people at the play ground who don't fit in.

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  cognac

  Hahahahahahahaha