FlyingHigh said for me to "Tell Him."
;-) I thought I did.
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mtsgrad:
Eeeeh, well, it's probably one of those things where people have to learn the hard way, because when the magnetic attraction is going strong, nothing could look like more fun. BUT...... oh boy, the fun wears off pretty fast when reality hits... especially for the girl/lady. And she will basically hate your guts in the end (even if she never says it) for getting her to fall head over heels for you and then wasting her time/life, when/if months later you are still not divorced for whatever reasons (finances, family, car breaks, lose job, family member dies, dog dies, etc. etc.), and she gets stuck waiting for the calls, the quick visits, never knowing when you'll be able to show up, etc. etc. -- All the stuff that "held so much promise" in the beginning turns to sheeeite real fast.
It's usually a win-win for the married guy, as it breaks up the boredom and monotony in his life either way. But it sends the single female on the road to hell. Do some googles to get the girl's point of view (even if she can't see it yet, which I'm sure she doesn't if she's never lived it before). Here's a few I found off the cuff: http://www.topdatingtips.com/married-affairs.htm ; http://www.ezilon.com/information/article_15240.shtml ; http://www.improve-your-romance.com/relationship-advice-dating-married-men.html ; http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/41 .
Going back five years or so there used to be a yahoogroup for "the other women" but I can't find it now (there were several of them actually). But if I could find it, I would say, oh boy, go read the descriptions of how those women describe their "married man" and see if you don't see yourself in those descriptions. ;-/
The truest truism I ever heard about this, years after the fact, was from an Oprah show when one of her psychologist guests said, "It is an INSULT to a single female for a married man to show interest in her."
Like I said, years after the fact I could say, AMEN TO THAT! Because in the early early early days when he FIRST called me, I WAS INSULTED and thought to myself, "Who the H does he think he is? I never said he could call here..." Yet he kept it up, ever so slowly and subtly, month after month, very innocent voicemails he would leave, etc. And over time he broke me down... and over the years he almost killed me. Stupid, yes!
Tell the girl, Don't be STUPID.
From the man's point of view, a former friend's hubbie told her that he had previously dated a married woman, and that it was the most miserable five years of his life, and he would never do it again for a million dollars.
Another friend wasted seven years dating a married man.
And yet another friend wasted 16 years.
(I fall somewhere in between those two, like the sucker I was).
Yes, those relationships come in all shapes and packages and timelines. But they all sucked!
Bottom Line: Don't Do It. If not for your sake, then for hers (the "other girl's sake".) If she becomes miserable because of your situation, then you will feel it and be miserable too. The "honeymoon phase" will last 2-5 months or less. The rest is pure misery.
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Now that I said way more than I ever intended to, I'm going to go crawl under a rock, lol.
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Give me a reason not to have an affair/one night stand
by mtsgrad ini am extremely close to having an affair.
let me give you some details.. been married for 8 years.
not had any relations for 7. faded 3 years ago.. in middle of getting divorced.
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Is NWO the New System?
by cameo-d innwo is a privatized operation.. it is not coming down from the un or from any national governments.
do the research!.
nwo is bigger than all of that.
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Jesus only said "my kingdom is not of this world"...he never went into this crazy story about setting up a rulership on earth. He never mentioned a new jerusalem, he never mentioned the 144,000 and he never mentioned a paradise earth.
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Are you saying you only believe Jesus' words in the four Gospels, but not the Book of Revelation?
Revelation 1:1 -- The Revelation of Jesus Christ, which God gave Him to show His servants -things which must shortly take place. And He sent and signified [it] by His angel to His servant John, 2 who bore witness to the word of God, and to the testimony of Jesus Christ, to all things that he saw.
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All verses from the New King James Version...
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RULERSHIP FROM/ON EARTH:
Isaiah 9:6 -- "For unto us a Child is born, Unto us a Son is given; And the government will be upon His shoulder. And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. 7 Of the increase of [His] government and peace [There will be] no end, Upon the throne of David and over His kingdom, To order it and establish it with judgment and justice From that time forward, even forever. The zeal of the LORD of hosts will perform this." - NKJV
Rev.19:11 -- "Now I saw heaven opened, and behold, a white horse. And He who sat on him [was] called Faithful and True, and in righteousness He judges and makes war. 12 His eyes [were] like a flame of fire, and on His head [were] many crowns. He had a name written that no one knew except Himself. 13 He [was] clothed with a robe dipped in blood, and His name is called The Word of God. 14 And the armies in heaven, clothed in fine linen, white and clean, followed Him on white horses. 15 Now out of His mouth goes a sharp sword, that with it He should strike the nations. And He Himself will rule them with a rod of iron. He Himself treads the winepress of the fierceness and wrath of Almighty God. 16 And He has on [His] robe and on His thigh a name written: KING OF KINGS AND LORD OF LORDS." -- NKJV
Zechariah 14:1 -- Behold, the day of the LORD is coming, And your spoil will be divided in your midst. 2 For I will gather all the nations to battle against Jerusalem; The city shall be taken, The houses rifled, And the women ravished. Half of the city shall go into captivity, But the remnant of the people shall not be cut off from the city.
Zech 14:3 -- Then the LORD will go forth And fight against those nations, As He fights in the day of battle. 4 And in that day His feet will stand on the Mount of Olives, Which faces Jerusalem on the east. And the Mount of Olives shall be split in two, From east to west, [Making] a very large valley; Half of the mountain shall move toward the north And half of it toward the south.
Zech 14:5 -- Then you shall flee [through] My mountain valley, For the mountain valley shall reach to Azal. Yes, you shall flee As you fled from the earthquake In the days of Uzziah king of Judah. Thus the LORD my God will come, [And] all the saints with You.
Zech 14:9 -- And the LORD shall be King over all the earth. In that day it shall be -- "The LORD [is] one," And His name one.
Zech 14:16 -- And it shall come to pass [that] everyone who is left of all the nations which came against Jerusalem shall go up from year to year to worship the King, the LORD of hosts, and to keep the Feast of Tabernacles. 17 And it shall be [that] whichever of the families of the earth do not come up to Jerusalem to worship the King, the LORD of hosts, on them there will be no rain. 18 If the family of Egypt will not come up and enter in, they [shall have] no [rain;] they shall receive the plague with which the LORD strikes the nations who do not come up to keep the Feast of Tabernacles. 19 This shall be the punishment of Egypt and the punishment of all the nations that do not come up to keep the Feast of Tabernacles.
Daniel 2:34 -- "You watched while a stone was cut out without hands, which struck the image on its feet of iron and clay, and broke them in pieces. 35 "Then the iron, the clay, the bronze, the silver, and the gold were crushed together, and became like chaff from the summer threshing floors; the wind carried them away so that no trace of them was found. And the stone that struck the image became a great mountain and filled the whole earth.
Daniel 2:44 -- "And in the days of these kings the God of heaven will set up a kingdom which shall never be destroyed; and the kingdom shall not be left to other people; it shall break in pieces and consume all these kingdoms, and it shall stand forever."
Devil to be bound for 1,000 years so he cannot mislead the nations anymore...
Revelation 20:2 -- He laid hold of the dragon, that serpent of old, who is [the] Devil and Satan, and bound him for a thousand years
Revelation 20:3 -- and he cast him into the bottomless pit, and shut him up, and set a seal on him, so that he should deceive the nations no more till the thousand years were finished. But after these things he must be released for a little while.
Revelation 20:4 -- And I saw thrones, and they sat on them, and judgment was committed to them. Then [I saw] the souls of those who had been beheaded for their witness to Jesus and for the word of God, who had not worshiped the beast or his image, and had not received [his] mark on their foreheads or on their hands. And they lived and reigned with Christ for a thousand years. [Note in Rev. 19, previous chapter, the Lord returns with his saints and angels to the earth, Zech 14 says he will stand his feet again on the Mt. of Olives, etc.]
Revelation 20:5 -- But the rest of the dead did not live again until the thousand years were finished...
Revelation 20:6 -- Blessed and holy [is] he who has part in the first resurrection. Over such the second death has no power, but they shall be priests of God and of Christ, and shall reign with Him a thousand years...
Revelation 20:7 -- Now when the thousand years have expired, Satan will be released from his prison... [what for, if not to attempt to mislead the nations again?]
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"144,000" -- (all from the Tribes of Israel who will be called to witness to the Jews and the nations DURING THE TRIBULATION and not before, and who certainly are not the JW "Elite"):
Revelation 7:4 -- And I heard the number of those who were sealed. One hundred [and] forty-four thousand of all the tribes of the children of Israel [were] sealed:
Revelation 7:5 -- of the tribe of Judah twelve thousand [were] sealed; of the tribe of Reuben twelve thousand [were] sealed; of the tribe of Gad twelve thousand [were] sealed;
Revelation 7:6 -- of the tribe of Asher twelve thousand [were] sealed; of the tribe of Naphtali twelve thousand [were] sealed; of the tribe of Manasseh twelve thousand [were] sealed;
Revelation 7:7 -- of the tribe of Simeon twelve thousand [were] sealed; of the tribe of Levi twelve thousand [were] sealed; of the tribe of Issachar twelve thousand [were] sealed;
Revelation 7:8 -- of the tribe of Zebulun twelve thousand [were] sealed; of the tribe of Joseph twelve thousand [were] sealed; of the tribe of Benjamin twelve thousand [were] sealed.
Revelation 14:1 -- Then I looked, and behold, a Lamb standing on Mount Zion, and with Him one hundred [and] forty-four thousand, having His Father's name written on their foreheads.
Revelation 14:3 -- They sang as it were a new song before the throne, before the four living creatures, and the elders; and no one could learn that song except the hundred [and] forty-four thousand who were redeemed from the earth.
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"NEW JERUSALEM":
Revelation 3:12 - "He who overcomes, I [Jesus Christ] will make him a pillar in the temple of My God, and he shall go out no more. And I will write on him the name of My God and the name of the city of My God, the New Jerusalem, which comes down out of heaven from My God. And [I will write on him] My new name.
Revelation 21:2 - Then I, John, saw the holy city, New Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband.
Revelation 21:10 - And he carried me away in the Spirit to a great and high mountain, and showed me the great city, the holy Jerusalem, descending out of heaven from God...
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There's plenty more about the reign of Christ... help yourself to an online Scripture search engine: http://www.olivetree.com/cgi-bin/EnglishBible.htm
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As for the "privatized NWO," very true. It is Satan's counterfeit to God's Kingdom. So it has to come, the false first, then the real thing.
And there had to be an Israel again, too, before the false "Golden Age" and false Messiah could come.
So the Masonic ruled Zionist Israel is exactly where she ought to be in the stream of things...
They will go together like two peas in a pod, ie:
First: (a) A godless false Israel + (b) The false Messiah = Temporary [false] Bliss/Golden Age/NWO = The Seven-year Tribulation.
Then: (a) True Messiah Returns w/His saints and angels + Saves the Remnant of natural Israel from total destruction = True/Real Kingdom of God (through which the Lord will "RULE THE NATIONS WITH A ROD OF IRON") so there will be nations and people left, and a Kingdom "government" with Christ ruling from earth with the saints that came back with Him.
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Bush and the Bible just in on CNN news. Bushs bible talk stuns evangelicals
by Trying2understand ini thought that you would want to see this.
i can careless about him, but his opinion will be seen by many.
president bush said in a recent interview he doesn't take the bible literally.. http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/politics/2008/12/11/am.intv.brody.bush.bible.cnn if the link does not come up, you can go to cnn.com to click on the direct link..
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No surprise, since Bush has said it's OK to pray to Allah, too...
He's no Christian...never was... here's a list one site started, but it's not all the way up to date:
Bush' Good Fruits vs. Bad Fruits:
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Here's what happens when you buy the wrong gift.
by JeffT inhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=knashc5ubx4&feature=related
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Very Funny! esp. the wild and crazy guy who bought his wife some hot wax for her upper lip ! HA!
No wonder he's never getting out, lol.
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Give me a reason not to have an affair/one night stand
by mtsgrad ini am extremely close to having an affair.
let me give you some details.. been married for 8 years.
not had any relations for 7. faded 3 years ago.. in middle of getting divorced.
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If you are a "HE" and your affair-partner is a "SHE," I would advise "SHE" to NOT have an affair with YOU/"HE" until YOU/"HE" has that written divorce document, signed, sealed, delivered, in your hands.
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Six Screens comments on controversial conference call
by kool aid man06 inwithout question, the ravyn guiliani interview on the six screens conference call created lots of controversy.
ravyn's experience with sra (satanic ritual abuse) was instantly rejected by so many.
it was as though people pre-judicated her story before she had a chance to tell it.
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I thought I've read numerous times that J. F. Rutherfraud got the info for his books, etc. from angels... (???)
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If you could choose one religion to disappear from this earth.....
by Quirky1 inwhat would it be?
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Can't eat just one (potato chip)...
Can't choose just one religion either...
1. ISLAM
2. CATHOLIC CHURCH
3. NEW AGE/THEOSOPHY
4. JUDAISM (which is not the same as Torah)
5. CULTS
6. OCCULT
7. Apostate Christianity
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I'm still afraid of Demons and "things that go bumps in the night" why?
by Witness 007 ini think there is no god or satan or ghosts or ufo's....but....my sub-consciuos mind is so messed up by witnesses if i hear a bump in the night i need to investigate....in the back of my mind i fear demons more then a burgular!
it so weird, it was drummed into me all my life, it still freaks me even though logically i know it's not at all real.
i have a bad dream and jump up to check the house....how's that for a 37 year old 6 foot 4 man?
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MUSIC to make you "NOT AFRAID!" and drive those "Demonzzzz" away:
Lyrics:
You can turn the lights out
in the middle of the night
It's all right, it's all right!
Though I walk through the valley
of the shadow of death
it's all right, it's all right
SOUL BROTHER ANDRAE CROUCH & COMPANY....
Inspiring Lively Snazzy Jazzy...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IYHXNFIqZZk
You gotta love Andrae Crouch, even if you don't believe in Bible/God/Jesus/Devil/Demons, et al, No Mo' -
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Ha, it's a wonder it hasn't happened before now.
But I wonder if that is real graffiti on the Guidestones themselves -- or if someone merely scribbled on some PHOTOS of the Guidestones and added them to their video?
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Either way, it's hard to argue with their sentiments, minus the four-letter-words, of course. ;-)
Rockefeller - BAD News
Rothschild - BAD News
CFR - BAD News
Globalists - BAD News
NAU - BAD News
Obama - BAD News
Did I leave out anything?
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Pretzels and JWs
by Nosferatu ini was just sitting here, admiring a bulk bag of pretzel twists sitting on the table and it sparked a memory.
jws aren't supposed to eat them.
remember that?.
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WOW, what decade was this rule/rumor/lie? Insanely hysterical.
I was in about 11 years ('79-90) and I don't EVER recall hearing ANYTHING about pretzels!
I guess every product or food on the planet that comes in three's is off limits to the dubs as well?
Next time JWs come knocking on everyone's door, we should offer them a bowl of twisted pretzels. Ha.