I really do get where you are coming from D_J, years of indoctrination, arguing, standing up for what you think is right no matter how absurd it is are personality traits that we take to our graves, I remember the first couple of years after coming out of the WTS and trying to assimilate and be accepted within the new group of friends I had made, and how awkward and difficult I must have been, I found personal relationships hard to maintain and wanted to remain isolated , I would often turn down requests to gatherings and party's etc because I preferred to be on my own, the lady you spoke of who uttered those words " your jehohvahs witness is showing" I'm sure would have been often spoken about me, but behind my back, and my new group of friends new nothing much about my previous life really at all and if they did you definitely didn't understand it . I sometimes wondered how they perceived me , sometimes I thought and felt I was a weird loner, maybe I still am