For me personally? Yes, it would be wrong to stay in. I would never support any 'organization' that willingly hides child molesters and dismisses victims as walking corpses and if they don't like being 'mistreated' then 'think of Job' and his trials and tribulations... utter bullshit barfed out by a high control group trying to keep control of those still in.
Your question one that you need to ask and to be able to answer yourself. Some people are gay and are perfectly happy living in the closet their whole lives.