Posts by odie67

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When You Were a Child /or Now - Your Favorite Cartoon Characters ?

by flipper in

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i know, a far cry from the sexiest actor/actress thread, but hell; let's be a kid for a weekend for a bit!

it brings back fun, good memories !

so, when you were a kid, did you lean toward disney or warner brothers ?

What Was The Silliest "Offense" That You Were Counseled For?

by minimus in

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when i was a teenager, i was told by an elder that because i smiled a lot and was known for my good sense of humor, that i should come across as "more serious".

so before i was appointed a ms, while in my late teens, i transformed myself into a much more "serious" brother.. were you ever told that you needed to work on something that you knew was stoopid?.

odie67

chewing gum in the KH. Now I was 25 years old at the time. An elder stops me while I'm in the middle of a conversation with another sister and demanded that i spit it out.

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What Was The Silliest "Offense" That You Were Counseled For?

by minimus in

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friends

when i was a teenager, i was told by an elder that because i smiled a lot and was known for my good sense of humor, that i should come across as "more serious".

so before i was appointed a ms, while in my late teens, i transformed myself into a much more "serious" brother.. were you ever told that you needed to work on something that you knew was stoopid?.

I had a "talk" on the theocratic school with my best friend and the setting was I was going to a worldly party and she was reading me scriptures regarding bad association...well at the end I told her that i appreciated her counsel but I was going to the party anyway. Well the the elders told us that when giving a "Talk" that the person should always accept the counsel. That didnt make sense to me because people always don't accept counsel. I was only 12 years old then and i knew that just wasnt realistic.

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Some Families the Women are Blessed!...Other Families The Men!

by new boy in

which was your family?.

i wanted to write this thread after reading pec's profile...wow!!!.

he was raised in a family were the men were cursed....if you had a penis you were in trouble.. that was true in my family too, my mother was sexually abused as a child...she hated men all men...so me and my father had no hope...being males.. in my exwife families the men were the chosen ones..the women were worthless.. what sex was favored in your family?

odie67

The women in my family are bossy. The men are silent. except for my husband. thats a huge issue for us. because men rule in his family.

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JW's are the only ones carrying out the preaching work

by odie67 in

this is what i was taught all my life.

believed it to be true.

no one preaches from door to door but the jw's.

odie67

This is what I was taught all my life. Believed it to be true. No one preaches from door to door but the JW's. Well I moved to another state and I've been here for about two years now. I have yet to see a JW in my area at all. Although there is a KH right down the street. On the contrary I see Mormons everywhere, all the time. Riding their bikes, ringing bells etc.

My sister is a new Jw, and so she tells me a couple of weeks ago "you know the preaching work is done, the GB is stopping it" ( she rushes around her bedroom as if noah and his ark is outside her house waiting on her).

ME: "oh yeah, says who?"

my sister: "well um, sister so 'n' so called me and said thats what she heard"

ME: "oh well i guess it's the end" ( I stretch and yawn)

my sister: "you know they changed the magazines" (she shows me a watchtower with no color)

for some strange reason I was not moved

My sister: "we don't place these anymore, the brother at the counter just barely gave me my share"

ME: "oh yeah, well let me know, if you hear anything else or if something happens"

It's always this looming threat that the preaching work is finished but yet they are constantly getting whipped about not being out in FS enough

yet i never see any JW out preaching (at least not in my area).

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How long were you...

by Honesty in

in the truth before you found out it isn't?

odie67

born and raised 30 + years. I started having some problems. the thing that really got me was the moment I stepped into the KH. I knew I needed help and I wanted help. I had been away for a while. The elders didnt ask me how I was doing or how I felt and they didnt care. I was DF on the spot. I cried because I was hurt. I wasnt hurt about getting DF but it was so cold how it was done. Then they had the nerve to ask me if I thought I was treated fairly and if I wanted to appeal the decison. I was like "NO!" If you are guided by God then why would you ask such a question.

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Ex-JWs... feelings of isolation, agoraphobia...?

by Moxie in

hi all... :) sorry for the novel.... i'm just wondering if there are any others out there who share similar experiences as me or have any comments and insight.... when i was a jw i was very, very social and active with friends and family in a wide range of activities.

i would even have considered myself the party-starter ;).

i used to plan events and social get togethers for all kinds of situations.

odie67

I've been df for about 3 years now. I used to have "gatherings" at my home all the time. Lots of friends, social activites etc...now it seems like that was a totally different person. I feel so detached from it all. I really don't have any friends now...my family that are Jw's shun me in public, and the family that are not Jw's I really don't have a relationship with them because I did not associate with them when I was a JW. It has been difficult and just strange to say the least. Old friends sometimes send a hello and miss you through family members.

sometimes i think about going back just so i can have a real relationship with my family. I've never been the type of person that can pretend. Either I'm 100% or 0%. My advice would be to just take baby steps into building some activities like going for coffee, a book store maybe even a simple hobby. I started bowling...it's been alot fun.

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Damage Control

by sandy in

i'm going to the assembly tomorrow to see my 13 yr old niece take the big plunge.

the most important day of her life.

how could i miss that?

odie67

oops! it's baptism...sorry i can't spell.

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Damage Control

by sandy in

i'm going to the assembly tomorrow to see my 13 yr old niece take the big plunge.

the most important day of her life.

how could i miss that?

odie67

she was getting babtized.....sorry i called it b-day. she acted like it was her birthday. she got her nails and hair done....but fell asleep during her big babtism talk.

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Damage Control

by sandy in

i'm going to the assembly tomorrow to see my 13 yr old niece take the big plunge.

the most important day of her life.

how could i miss that?

odie67

I went to my sister's big B-day. I talked my husband into going. He tries not to disrespect any religion. He wore his nice sweater and slacks. He stayed awake the whole day. Turned to all the scriptures. Ate the sandwich I made. When we got home he said he would be supportive If i ever wanted to return to the KH. But he would never ever ever become one. The CO gave a talk about not wasting your time on education and how young people should devote their time To the field. I think they had him up until that point.....