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  RENAII had a baby girl 7lb 9ozs yay

  by chikikie in

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  hi just to let everyone know my sister becky had a baby girl this morning, via c-section, thankfully no blood transfusion needed, so no difficult choice there altho i did say if she needed it, she better bloody well have it, its more of a sin to leave your children motherless than submit to a law which may or may not be inspired of god.. i dunno name maybe elizabeth, who knows, she has been known to change her mind!!!.

  mother and baby doing well..

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  me wonders if my sister get a congrads off sirona?
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  Bible belt in america and the amish?

  by chikikie in

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  hi when i watch tv esp american tv shows about the bible belt and amish communities, just wondered if anyone out there lived near those areas and did you door to door witness and was it easy??.

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  just curious..

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  I suppose thats why they called it 'sweet home alabama'

  Anyone witness to a community of Amish or did they scare you off with their pitchforks, I mean it could be worse for us... it must be awful for an amish youngster growing up............
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  Bible belt in america and the amish?

  by chikikie in

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  hi when i watch tv esp american tv shows about the bible belt and amish communities, just wondered if anyone out there lived near those areas and did you door to door witness and was it easy??.

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  just curious..

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  Maybe we dont have any JWs on this site from those areas, heck if its an hour between doors, why would anyone want to leave the JWs, it would be like easy peasy field service
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  Bible belt in america and the amish?

  by chikikie in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hi when i watch tv esp american tv shows about the bible belt and amish communities, just wondered if anyone out there lived near those areas and did you door to door witness and was it easy??.

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  just curious..

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  Hi when I watch tv esp american tv shows about the bible belt and amish communities, just wondered if anyone out there lived near those areas and did you door to door witness and was it easy??

  just curious.
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  RENAII had a baby girl 7lb 9ozs yay

  by chikikie in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hi just to let everyone know my sister becky had a baby girl this morning, via c-section, thankfully no blood transfusion needed, so no difficult choice there altho i did say if she needed it, she better bloody well have it, its more of a sin to leave your children motherless than submit to a law which may or may not be inspired of god.. i dunno name maybe elizabeth, who knows, she has been known to change her mind!!!.

  mother and baby doing well..

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  Yep, just had confirmation, baby elizabeth or as her older sister esther will say 'lizzie birdie' shes really fine and good, if yer gonna have a c-section its good when they plan the day and give you a slot in which to have it, damn I had all mine naturally........ that was hard work, my eyes water at the thought of pushing a melon thru a hole the size of a walnut......
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  RENAII had a baby girl 7lb 9ozs yay

  by chikikie in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hi just to let everyone know my sister becky had a baby girl this morning, via c-section, thankfully no blood transfusion needed, so no difficult choice there altho i did say if she needed it, she better bloody well have it, its more of a sin to leave your children motherless than submit to a law which may or may not be inspired of god.. i dunno name maybe elizabeth, who knows, she has been known to change her mind!!!.

  mother and baby doing well..

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  regrettable, my sister lives near hull, its me that lives in a little country villiage in devon, and I have three girls, and its a lovely place to grow up!!

  Shes gonna be in hospital for 6 days as she had a c-section, she still hasnt decided on name yet, will keep everyone posted, no doubt she'll be agruing her corner when she gets back from hospital, you know what shes like!!
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  RENAII had a baby girl 7lb 9ozs yay

  by chikikie in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hi just to let everyone know my sister becky had a baby girl this morning, via c-section, thankfully no blood transfusion needed, so no difficult choice there altho i did say if she needed it, she better bloody well have it, its more of a sin to leave your children motherless than submit to a law which may or may not be inspired of god.. i dunno name maybe elizabeth, who knows, she has been known to change her mind!!!.

  mother and baby doing well..

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  chikikie

  Hi just to let everyone know my sister becky had a baby girl this morning, via c-section, thankfully no blood transfusion needed, so no difficult choice there altho I did say if she needed it, she better bloody well have it, its more of a sin to leave your children motherless than submit to a law which may or may not be inspired of god.

  I dunno name maybe elizabeth, who knows, she has been known to change her mind!!!

  mother and baby doing well.
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  Ex-JWs... feelings of isolation, agoraphobia...?

  by Moxie in

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  hi all... :) sorry for the novel.... i'm just wondering if there are any others out there who share similar experiences as me or have any comments and insight.... when i was a jw i was very, very social and active with friends and family in a wide range of activities.

  i would even have considered myself the party-starter ;).

  i used to plan events and social get togethers for all kinds of situations.

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  My Ex partner never understood why i couldnt let it all go, but its hard to let go of something, of behobiour programmed into you, the slightest thing can bring back pleasant and unpleasant memories of the JWs, that can have a lasting impact for days. as it is, I am affected by one thing every year, which is my baptism date, March 10th, and often think I should go back to the JWs, I dont know why I think this, but I do, I know that in my head there is no desire but it doesnt stood the dreams/nightmares, of going back into a KH talking to the elders. If there was a pill, Id happily take one, but I know that it is like having some kind of traumatic stress disorder and you ind of shut down until you can reassure yourself that everything is ok and that your not going to bump into a JW, Im glad I moved away from my home town when I left because the anxiety i feel just thinking of bumping into a Jw i know when I go back home to see my family is just frightening. I KNOW DEEP DOWN ITS TO DO WITH BEING RAISED AS A JW, someday someone will find a way of being able to overcome it until then we have to muddle thru the best we can, good luck moxie, PM any time ok
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  Ex-JWs... feelings of isolation, agoraphobia...?

  by Moxie in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  hi all... :) sorry for the novel.... i'm just wondering if there are any others out there who share similar experiences as me or have any comments and insight.... when i was a jw i was very, very social and active with friends and family in a wide range of activities.

  i would even have considered myself the party-starter ;).

  i used to plan events and social get togethers for all kinds of situations.

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  I too left 8 years ago, I too have these problems with connection, I suffer from panic attacks and anxeity, I had this whilst I was a JW, I aux pioneered, went to all the meetings, but I was shunned inside the JWs and decided to leave, I couldnt do anything right and the only friends I had were older sisters in there 70s and 80s. Counselling doesnt work, because they do not understand what it is like to be an Ex JW, recently we had this earthquake in Britain, my first thought was, Armageddon is here and were all gonna die. I suspect these side effects are from being raised as a JW, people who have just dabbled dont seem to be as affected when they leave.

  I have my children and am close to my family who all left before me, infact I was the last one to leave, apart from a grandad who still goes and says Im disgusting because I have three children out of wedlock, he talks to me still because he doenst know I DAd myself.

  The one thing I tend to enjoy is cinema, every month my ex looks after the kids and I go to the cinema by myself, I 'll stay and watch three films, and immerse myself into another world for a little while.

  Im still trying to find away to make these feelings of feeling different, not fitting, I dont fit in the JW and I dont fit in the world, Im like in the middle. If this makes any sense.

  Anyway good luck to you, if yuo find the answer let me know.
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  Looking for a dating site in particular

  by AntiKrist in

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  i've noticed that most of all dating sites have their search page filled with boxes and that's it.

  there's no way for one to actually make a text based search; typing in "apostate" for instance in a text box and thus search for that word in the profile database or am i wrong?

  do you know of any dating site that has this feature?

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  Dont worry hun, they usually accuse everyone as being a watchtower spy at first. lol, even me lol. Dont know of any dating sites, sorry.