I just want to thank everybody who has responded so far, I appreciate your kind words! Each reply may be different but they are all helpful.
I know many of you think it may be better to just let go and let the pain of losing her subside with time. But, she means so much to me that I'm not willing to give up on our relationship. She encompasses my entire world; she's the first thing I think of when I wake up, the last thing I think about as I fall asleep and everything else in between. I can't imagine my life without her. I'm willing to face the battles ahead in a marriage of different religious beliefs. The easy way isn't always the right way and I'm willing to fight our battles of indifference because the reward is so sweet. If we could only overcome this one hurdle I think it opens the door to understanding and compromise that will allow us to live a successful and completely joyous life together.
I need her to understand just how important she is to me. I'd put myself in front of any danger that faced her to keep her safe. I know that together we could have so much together if only she would be willing to take that chance. I just don't know what else to offer. Shouldn't someones religious beliefs be something that they find for themselves? I fully accept that she wants to introduce any future children to her belief system, but is mine less important because it's not as structured as the Witness system? You become a team in all matters of life when you choose marriage, especially when you decide to have children together. Do we not have an equall say in their religious up-bringing? Can we not introduce them to both sides of the equation and let them decide for themselves when the time is right for them?
Am I asking too much?