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  ANY J-DUB "CELEBRITY" SIGHTINGS AT MEMORIAL??

  by BONEZZ in

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  you know...prince...williams sisters...dwight eisenhower...mickey spillane?

  maybe the jwd hollywoos correspondent will check in.. -bonezz.

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  LaToya showed us her breast.

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  Sex and JWs I want to know what you think "he played the God Card"

  by jonie in

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  i was a jw but left about 8 years ago, my husband wanted to go back so we have tried, i did not do so good.

  being gone so long just helped me realize this is totally false, i look at the jws as lambs being lead to their deaths.. fast forward to now, we are both in our 40s and i have had medical side effects from using birth control and other meds as birth control.

  my body can not take anymore, i have suffered breast cyst and uterus cyst, so i asked my husband who has an issue with using condoms because he does not reach a climax, and has to masturbate, to use something that would offer us a permanent result such as him getting a vasectomy.. his reaction is like why i feel even more strongly that jws are wrong.

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  Hmm...Jackmeself off VS. Sex with your wife???? I'm going to sex with the wife any day!

  I agree. Get the vas, it is no big deal and it makes the sex more fun, knowing that your spouse isn't going to get prego and she will be more comfortable too!

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  URGENT RESPONSE NEEDED

  by shell69 in

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  from my jwd friends.

  i have a situation and need some jw literature quotationes regairding the following issues.

  i disposed of all my dub literature upon my exit, and need help with this;.

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  "Ditto" to Magaflower's response.

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  ANY J-DUB "CELEBRITY" SIGHTINGS AT MEMORIAL??

  by BONEZZ in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  you know...prince...williams sisters...dwight eisenhower...mickey spillane?

  maybe the jwd hollywoos correspondent will check in.. -bonezz.

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  But, the Pope did bless the ritual and gave it three Hail Mary's and he did like the wine.

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  Why exactly do you come to this board?

  by R.Crusoe in

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  i wondered if anyone, after starting to post here after so long being worried about doing, now just does it because they acn and hasn't stopped to ask why the still feel the need or even pleasure.. so why do you come here?.

  do you know?.

  it's not easy to completely explain what it is substiruting for imo!.

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  To releive........Stress!

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  How Did Your JW Wife or Husband Leave You?

  by new boy in

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  inspiried by other post and threads....and the love to type.. after going from being a self rightious pioneer and bethelite, to someone who had major doubts.my years drifted by me.

  i had been a watchtower slave for over 50 years.

  one day at a time, i sold my soul.

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  This is all new to me. I am just now going thru all the emotional drama due to me exiting and the wife staying in. I can say tho that the relationship seems to be deteriorating and it is very strenuous.

  I have been with my wife for 25 years a JW for 7. Even tho I have assured her that I love her very much and I am making a choice not to follow the WTBS. She feels that I am not choosing her. She also puts the religion ahead of what we have or had together.

  I cannot see what the outcome will be but I am just hoping she comes to her senses before it caves in to where it is unrepairable therefore ending in tragedy.

  But you have to be true to your heart and to yourself. Please do not try living a lie because you will just be miserable.

  My heart goes out to anyone and everyone who is or has been in this situation.

  Eyes Wide Open

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  Started Reading Crisis of Conscience

  by B_Deserter in

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  i've read the first two chapters, and it's quite interesting.

  franz makes many of the observations i have as well.

  upon reading the beginning of this book, i realized something.

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  It is indeed an,"Eyes Wide Open", detailed book. I highly recommend it for everyone thinking of or are a current JW. I beleive people should see who is pulling the strings behind the curtain.

  It reminds me of the Professor Marvel as the sham "Wizard of Oz" and the subjects are the "Tin Man" and all they need is a "brain" along with the "courage" the Cowardly Lion needed and find the yellow brick road to life without the JW/WTBS.

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  Others who know the truth about the truth!

  by oneairhead in

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  within the past week i have met two others in my area who are closet apostates, like me.

  one still attends and one does not.

  but it is noce to know that they are there and we can have conversations about it.

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  Da truf will set you free!

  Eyes Wide Open

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  How did you save your marriage while leaving?

  by AlyMC in

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  the other thread (opposite in nature) is really touching and i enjoyed reading everyone's experiences.

  i saw a few people who were still in share how scared they were of that outcome, so i thought positive stories of how you managed to save your marriage while leaving the organization might be nice.

  so, what is your story?

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  AlyMC,

  I am in the same situation and I am currently working on saving my relationship with my wife. I was the one that started questioning the WT doctrine and inquired by doing research about the religion and read apostate literature. I no longer believed what I was being taught by the WTBS.

  I slowly started taking my stand. I spoke to my wife about my feelings and new understandings of what I thought was once the true religion. She didn't agree with me but I still held firm to my convictions. I resigned from my position as Accounts Servant then six months later I resigned from being an MS. I continued with my duties until I was tired of feeling compelled to do them. That's when I grew a goatee, knowing they wouldn't let me perform any duties while having one. Then one day I told my wife I no longer wanted to be a JW and that I would never set foot in another KH again. This tore her up emotionally. She thinks that I am going against her and I had to re-assure her that it was the religion I was choosing to leave nother. I told her I would support her in her beliefs and would not try to deter her from them.

  Since then there is moments that she is okay with the decision I made but then there are times where it arises to the fore and she breaks down emotionally over it. She is having a hard time coming to terms with the reality that I do not care if I "Liver Forever in Paradise". I no longer beleive that philosophy.

  I beleive the biggest crossing for her was my choice to start associating with my side of the family, non-JW's, after seven years of being away from the. She has mentioned that she would be abliged to report me and have me DF'd. She also made mention to me that I may need to get a new medical directive, since I stated that I will accept blood transfusions, and if I needed one she would let me die. When I did this she again came apart emotionally. I am going to send a copy to the B.O.E. and here parents. This will probably speed up the DFing process.

  Since then we have had our good times and bad but I can tell the relationship is erroding but I try to remain positive that we will stick it out and work thru it. The other crossing is that she has her parents that are JW's and she is worried about being able to associate with them if I am DF'd. Because it will happen eventually. That is just there mindset.

  Currently I do not know exactly where we are at in this scheme of things but I am getting a lot of moral support from this site and my side of the family, which was totally against me becoming a JW in the first place. I have never really had a place in my life for religion. I and my younger brother was brought up without religion. Not that we are Athiest but just did not worship or attend a church.

  I have come to the understanding that if there is a God and he has the ability to "read hearts" that he will read mine and understand where I am coming from.

  AlyMC, I admire your courage. Please stand firm in what you beleive in and be true to yourself and your heart.

  Eyes Wide Open

  Sincerely,

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  If there is such a thing as "ONE TRUE RELIGION...

  by JH in

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  if there is such a thing as "one true religion", then lots of good honest god loving people will die at armageddon.. although jw's don't gamble, chosing the correct religion, if there is one, is a gamble.. .

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  Let me think, hmmmmmm.............................................Nope!

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