Welcome to the board "Searchingforfreinds"!
You will find some here.
Quirky1
or, at least made progress in healing yourselves.... right now i feel like i have made a lot of progress.. i did the following that helped tremendously:.
joined this forum!
faced my husband regarding how i felt and feel that we have met eachother 1/2 way on this - even researched and prepared how to talk to him in a better way (i have a blunt, tactless way of bringing things up - in case you guys didn't notice, lol.
Welcome to the board "Searchingforfreinds"!
You will find some here.
Quirky1
in the new may awake magazine there is an article "is philanthropy the answer?
i knew what the answer.
was going to be before i even read it.
I bet that, during conventions and assemblies, when they post a list of the motels and hotels that are to be used "ONLY" and that you must mention that you "ARE" on of the JW's, that this is a way for them to gain a percentage of the sales or a rebate check of some sort from each one on the list.
I see a lot of this sort of thing in the business I am in.
Conspiracy??
Quirky1
Tired of Hypocrisy read my mind.
Quirky1
well i'm sure you've probably heard by now about the suicide of a governing body member.
what you may not have heard, however, is the rest of the story.
apparently he was finishing a book that blows the lid off the wtbts!
I don't think it was suicide....It was genocide.....
Quirky1
i was told today by a heavyweight elders wife, both of whom were at bethel for many years and are very well connected to the brooklyn brass, that all brooklyn bethel operations will be moved to wallkill and patterson.
in fact, there is a very exclusive walk-through next week for some of the top real estate investors/developers who will see all the properties, starting with the sands, and its lobby has now been remodeled to look just like a high-end hotel..................just fyi.................................oompa
'Tis true!
It was just a thought...
Quirky1
when every single person you know is a witness, how do you leave?
has anybody here left, and had nobody on the outside.
because that's where i would be.
helenhall,
Welcome!
There is plenty of good advice on this board and you will find even more support. You will need to gather in your own heart that this is not the right relegion. I suggest reading "Crisis ofd Conscience" by Raymond Franz. This will open many doors and windows for you. Contemplate your next move or stand but do it subtetly. Do not be rash about anything.
"Do" make freinds outside the "Borg"! Try going to the gym, library, bowling alley, the local pub. Whatever makes "You" happy. But, mainly try to relax. You are "NOT" alone.
Keep coming back to this site and expressing yourself.
Sincerely,
Quirky1
anyone want to share their expierences on the clicks that would form in your meetings.
usually in my meeting they were started by the children of the so called elders.
freaking hipocrits, and spreading rumors and judging people all the time.
The so called, cliques, in our congo were a bunch of drunks! These people would invite you over and get to know you and if you met their requirments you were fine but if not they would never invite you again. All they did was drink and party! In which I participated, until I found them out, but that is all they did. They were a bunch of showy hypocrites. I loathe them now for how they treated others. These people were the Elders and their wives as well as the PO ans MS. People you were supposed to look up and respect. I never agreed with this kind of treatment even when I was in H.S. The only time they want anything to do with you is when they want something.
People like that suck.
Quirky1
i was told today by a heavyweight elders wife, both of whom were at bethel for many years and are very well connected to the brooklyn brass, that all brooklyn bethel operations will be moved to wallkill and patterson.
in fact, there is a very exclusive walk-through next week for some of the top real estate investors/developers who will see all the properties, starting with the sands, and its lobby has now been remodeled to look just like a high-end hotel..................just fyi.................................oompa
I'm just curious here people, but with the market being in such turmoil, why not wait it out for a better market? Are they having any financial woes to speak of? It just doesn't sound logical to me at this point in time unless there is a huge market for the property.
Quirky1
it seems as though an age has passed from discovering this site seven years ago to where i am now.
just before we started studying the daniel's prophecy book, i went online to see if anyone had made a study bookmark with the dates and paragraphs on.
i "stumbled" across this site, way back in 2000. of course, like a good christian i pretty much determined that this site had gone apostate from the other jw sites, such.
I actually started searching Ex-Jw's and found Randy's site www.freeminds.org and it all went from there. What an eye opening experience! I am so glad that I am not alone in my endeavors to leave the cultish , clannish WTBS.
Luv U All!
Quirky1
it had been 5 years or more since i even read a watchtower article after exiting the witness cult in late 2003. but i was curious to see if the new " witness only " watchtowers were more controlling than i remember them being 5 years ago.
and it certainly opened my eyes to the extreme control.
when you have been away from it - you can really see the difference !
I "knew" that was where the so called "FDS" was going with this. It is just another tactic to make the R & F feel special, priveledged to belong to the Borg. Anything to make them feel unique. Plus it's also a way that they are able to convey their "cult inspired message" and control them without alerting the so called "new recruits" in feild circus how controlling of an organization they really are.
To them this is privy information that is only particular to them and they are proud of it.
I'm sorry, but these people are in a coma and need to wake the F*** Up! I wish they could see this. I recognized this shortly after I was baptised into this sh**! I just tried to roll with the punches until I had had enough.
Eyes Wide Open!!!!!!!!
Quirky1