Lindy,
Thanks for the kind words. She is a good of friend of my wife and me. I now realize after getting to "really" know a lot of JWs that this "isn't really that hard to believe".
But the problem with her is she hates "reading" (the words a recruiter loves to hear). This combined with the "drilling" of her JW mom and all of her mom's friends have unfortunately taken their toll. This has made her very intellectually lazy so it is a tough struggle (me against about 50 people). I have told her things and she has opened up to a point. She now knows about some of the history. And then, once at that point (like most JWs) the wall is erected to get rid of the cognitive dissonance and I can say no more. I know she gets mad at me for doing it no matter how "tender" I am. My big problem when I talk to her is making sure I don't sound like a "Mr. Know it All" and trying to get the mind to think she is in a "dangerous cult". The only thing that keeps her from taking the "big plunge" is the boring meetings and the "not wanting to go door knocking".
Her father died due to hep C from a blood transfusion too. He had Leukemia. So trying to make her understand that it was a bunch of guys in Ottawa who were at fault for not alllowing for the testing of AIDs and Hep C and not the fault of the blood itself is almost impossible for her to understand - I need a lot patience.
She is just but one I am now trying to help. This kids stuff wrt to the blood issue and other things like the peds is just unreal and the shunning (.... Well that type of hate is big time wrong).
So I try where I can - like this Frank Gorman stuff for Maximus. If we can get this moving correctly we may be able to change a policy that kills.
Take care Lindy, thanks again, and I have to get going.
hawk