I don’t know which one leaves first but I have noticed it is much easier for a women to leave
I do not usually comment when I do not agree with something. But, this thread seems to be going in a direction that is hard to swallow.
For a decade I was planning my escape from the cult. This was not some emotional feeling I had during my period! I was middle aged, uneducated,penniless from years and years in full time service, no work experience and two young girls to protect. I knew I would lose every person I ever was friends with along with my home and marriage. Most days in those 10 years the only option for getting out seemed to be either live on the streets or suicide. It was a calculated escape that was anything but easy.