Chelys;
>"Not sure if I should just let it go and try to heal and get over the whole thing, or see what can be done. Sorry about the long post, Chelsea"<
Welcome and sorry for your dilemma. It sounds like your boyfriend has been reactivated in his cult thinking, cognitive dissonance kicks in and they try to be stronger than ever. He may have even talked to the local or some elders and they will drill this into his head: you are, "worldly and will be the cause of his death by god". Yes you are not worthy of consideration as to your feelings you are considered as a potential recruit and if you decline you are worldly scum and will be killed by the WT god. So in his mind he is wasting his time on a living corpse.
Sorry to be so blunt, but it's actually worse than I depicted, I wish you well.
HCM