I cant subscribe to that mentality.. my hubby was a JW, I wasnt, we got married, I got baptized, he became an elder and I an elders wife..
My hubby was a funny guy, was very outgoing and personal, concerned about people-we both worked, I took care of paying bills, house
We had our arguments, we had our good times, a lot of them - he got what he wanted, I got what I wanted, we spoiled each other--all I had to do was suggest something and stop talking, he would come around and do whatever I wanted, so I could not complain..
He died and I thank God that I was as involved with doing everything I could while he was alive - I learned a lot and am able to survive, not like those who are a submissive lot and depend on their husbands to show them what to do as far as driving, paying bills, etc. It is a shock to many wives to have to take care of themselves when a death occurs - women should be knowledgeable, thats why they have a brain!
Eve was submissive to her husband only AFTER the sin - when God decreed she would be -- yet many religionists have taken this to indicate a woman be of lesser value in a man's eyes from that time on - I can only think of that Levite who allowed his wife to be raped and then cut her in twelve pieces.. maybe there was a moral to that story but I cant find it ...
submissive doesnt mean being a fool