Mad Sweeney -- sorry about that, it was you who gave the link, thanks
I did listen to the interviews and thought they did an excellent job of expaining their situations, and the letter from the society hid the fact of how strict they really are when dealing with relatives who are DA's or DF'd - my child did not want to go to meetings at 14 years of age and being a minor, we did not force him to go - not kick him out of the house- hence he never got baptized and thankfully today, we have a great relationship one that the soceity can do nothing about..
If there is a groundswell of support for this issue, the society will have to bend to the will of the people - or at least loose some of the restrictions... hopefully -- people are depressed,ill,suicidal (2 that I know of) because of this harsh directive