n8maverick

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  my gf is a jw

  by jerome in

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  please offer any suggestions that may help me convince her thst sshe is being decived.

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  n8maverick

  haha ouch. but yeah I wuz kind of expecting that. I probe and pry a bit but she gets really defensive. we even had a discussion on disfellowship because her friend (a JW) became pregnant and then married and wuz kicked out. I think because of counseling and all this other stuff, they slowly let that girl back in the KH. she told me she'd receive similar treatment if they found out about me. she even freaked one day when JW's came to my door, and my mother told them we're ok and her son was dating a JW. she worried that my mother would slip her name and then she'd be in a heap of trouble. just the look of fear on her face saddened me about how real this really was. thank you for the input and I will definitely ask questions!
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  my gf is a jw

  by jerome in

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  2. relationships

  please offer any suggestions that may help me convince her thst sshe is being decived.

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  n8maverick

  hi my name is n8 and my gf is a JW. like someone posted earlier, my hope is that she is able to 'break the rules' and date me. secretly, of course. we have been dating for over a year and because of our age and maturity, I'd consider this a very serious relationship. i'd honestly marry this girl. the biggest roadblock is the corrupt belief she has been brain-washed into believing. she knows how intelligent I am and how stubborn I am. shes also very adament about her beliefs. I've mangaged to get her to come to a few friends birthday celebrations. haha I know I'm bad. I've also had my share of the lion's den and visited her kingdom hall. I have no intentions of ever joining of becoming a JW. I DO however have faith thar her eyes will one day be opened. the Holy Spirit is the only one that can make this happen but I believe I can be the vessel. help. how would I even begin to talk to her?? I ask questions. a lot. I want to start small, and I DON'T want to lose her. any help is welcome and I will start by buying or dLing the pdf of the COC book.