I want to change my comment of a few months ago about wanting to still be married to my ex. I wouldn't take him back if he paid me. Which I know will not happen since he another woman living with him now. He has not taken the time to grieve his dead parents or the divorce. One day it will hit him and then, I wouldn't give his problems to a monkey on a rock. I am doing okay. Grief will not destory me. Tears are a sign you are on the way to recovery. I am getting used to be alone without having to cry all the time. They deserve each other. Wait until she finds out what a control freak he is.
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How to fade quickly and get off the JW "radar screen"
by sir82 inso you want to fade quickly, and keep the elders off your back?
here's an easy way to do it:.
1) recruit a sympathetic friend - doesn't have to be an elder, heck, doesn't even have to be a jw - to pose as the secretary for the "xyz" congregation.. 2) tell your congregation secretary you are moving to the "xyz" congregation.
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I moved to a new area, I went to the congregation were I lived, but it was too far me to drive alone at night, so I changed to a closer one. Since, I didn't live it the territory they kinda lost me when I stopped coming. Of course, I am a woman and they we don't matter that much to the elders. So, as long as you aren't an elder you can slip through the radar screen.
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You sure it isn't some sort of game and the things on the top are the game pieces to move around the board?
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Youtube Video - Jehovah's Witnesses Founder and the Pyramid
by VM44 inthis deserves to be mentioned here again.
it is absolutely brilliant!.
it shows perfectly just how seriously "pastor" charles t. russell should be taken.. jehovah's witnesses founder and the pryamid.
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Wow, way cool. That explains so much about Russell doesn't it?
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Youtube Video - Jehovah's Witnesses Founder and the Pyramid
by VM44 inthis deserves to be mentioned here again.
it is absolutely brilliant!.
it shows perfectly just how seriously "pastor" charles t. russell should be taken.. jehovah's witnesses founder and the pryamid.
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Wow, way cool. That explains so much about Russell doesn't it?
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Is Satan REALLY all that BAD????
by oompa indemons and satan may not really be that bad after all.
the bible does not really say all that much about him, but we do know god does not put up with much $hit.
so lets see,satan calls god a liar, and gets man to sin, and what happens to him?
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So I take it from the comments most of you still believe in Satan as a being, right? How can you blame everything bad on him? Don't we bring a lot of it on ourselves by our actions or lack thereof? I think so many would just like to find someone else to blame for anything horrible that happens to them. We know stuff happens to good and bad people. We all get sick and now we know we will all die. Let's make the most of the life we have been given and lay off all the crap we shovel on people, who haven't done anything to deserve it.
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Merry Christmas and Season's Greetings and good bye all
by Bubblie ini am going off the board.
i feel it has run its course i leave it to those who want it.
there are some who have made me unwelcome on here, so i will sign off.
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The person who was mean to me was in a pm. I understand that everyone thinks that is private and the board is public. Since, only about seven people know who I am on here. The person that wrote me has hundreds of friends on here. She is with my former husband now. She moved in with him after I moved out. I haven't seen her on this board, yet. Hope she doesn't show up but if she does---I will stay away from her for sure. I will not say who either of them are, to protect the life they have chosen with each other. That hurts enough. They have each other I have my loving dog. It will take years to get over the divorce but I am working through it. My losses are great, major loss: My marriage to divorce, resulting losses: my best friend and companion, my home, my job, finiancial security, ties to his family, sense of failure, moving to a new area, loss of religion (just left in 2005), loss of friends, loss of the familiar, and loss of self worth. However, I will not always feel as I do now. I am doing okay. Grief will not destroy me. I will make it through this experience just as others have before me. Tears are a sign that I am on the way to recovery. I am taking charge of my own grief. I soon hope to reach the place where there are less tears and more laughter. I hope it is soon, thank you to my friends on here for the encouragement and kind words. And my new friends I have made since my move to Tennessee.
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Why is it that people who go to church feel you have to belong to a church to be happy?
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WT you are correct! They love to make you feel like you are wicked! Don't they? I just can't let people continue to do this to me. I am standing on my own two feet against all of this. I will make up my own mind if I chose to believe in a god or not! I am still looking at all the possible outlooks. The jury is still out on my case right now.
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Why is it that people who go to church feel you have to belong to a church to be happy?
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I like to feel like now I can appreciate any and all things since I left the dubs. I have joined a few clubs in my area. Most are just for fun. Some are political. It exposes you to all the different kinds of people out there. There was a speaker that was an astrologist. I told my sister (former Baptist misionary home from assignment in retirement) about it. She freaked out that I might be interested in that again. I have always had an interest in the planets and whether they effect our lives. Anyway, she got down right firm in her speech that it was not true and condemned in the Bible. Who gives a flying f about that? If she didn't have her church to lean on she would be lost. She tells me she is ready to die and only 63. What is up with that? I feel like I can't be myself around her anymore. It is like being judged by the elders or your pioneer pals all over again. I hate that feeling.
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Why is it that people who go to church feel you have to belong to a church to be happy?
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I know I live it the Bible belt now but it seems everyone I meet here has this idea that you must belong to some kind of church or you are just out there on your own. Maybe, that I where I want to be right now. I only left in 2005. Still trying to figure out if I believe in anything anymore. The god of the Bible let me down by letting my marriage end. Since he is supposed to hate divorce. There are plenty of churches down here to choose from but none that I feel inclined to go to. I love sleeping in on Sunday. My sister doesn't call me to wake me like she does during the week, she is at church. It is a day to look at the paper and relax.