Wow, Wuz you are moving quickly. I wish you well. Sorry for his reaction. Kinda like a deer caught in the headlights, huh? Insurance is the only thing he could think to bring up. Maybe, he was clueless? I am still working on getting over my divorce as some of us on here have gone through one. As you know it takes time. I moved out as soon as I found a place, but I moved states away. Found out end of May moved beginning of August. If you move close by at least he can still come by to see the children. Hope it works out for you.
Bubblie
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So I told him I am moving out...
by WuzLovesDubs in...and there was no reaction at all.
flat line.
no expression on his face whatsoever.
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Doing the best I can on the Global Warming...
by Gregor inthis winter is not over but it has, so far, been brutal.
in our part of the world we have seen weeks of sub-freezing temps and blizzards that have left us virtually isolated.
we live very modestly, no 10,000 sq ft mansions, no private jets or limosines, but, none the less, we do what we can to speed up global warming.
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Bubblie
Call it what you want. I like what a guy on Bill Maher called it Global Weirding. I am going to hear Robert F. Kennedy, Jr. speak tonight. His topics are "Its Not Easy Being Green" and "Crimes Against Nature." I saw a film last night called The 11th Hour all about the change in the weather and if it can be reversed. Can you tell I just joined a Green group? Takes me back to my hippie days.
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Im probably getting a divorce.... :*(
by WuzLovesDubs inits probably over due.
and im terrified.
any of you that know me know ive put up with a lot in the 22 years of marriage and its wasnt just the jw thing.
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Bubblie
So sorry this is happening to you. Divorce is never easy. I just got one after over 35 years of marriage last year in July. I am older than you and am looking for a job in a depressed area of Tennessee. I never had children because of the dubs. Hope you are able to keep it together. It is a very difficult thing to leave but I wish you well. I personally hate living alone but am doing it much better now. I can do what I want when I want. I love my freedom now. Many on this board have given me good advice. I have just joined a divorce support group. I am able to go to therapy as well. You are scared because you remember what you went through before and how long it takes to work through the grief and how hard it is to do. Even when you are ready to go you still have to deal with so much. I wish you strength and power. So many of us have had your situation. If we were men we wouldn't give it as much thought. But then again we are able to cry easier than then, huh? Thats a sign you are on the road to recovery. You will not always feel like you do. The grief will not destroy you. You will get through this experience as others have gotten through it before you. Power to us women!
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Beatles Fans
by watson inthis is the one:.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cab4x4brhxk&feature=related.
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Bubblie
"Love" at the Mirage is a must see if you go to Vegas. It should be a requirement for all who are there. The soundtrack from the show, now has a DVD with how they put everything together for it. The orginial just had the music again with a still painting. What was that all about? When I saw the Beatles in 1966 it was before they could do things like Rubber Soul since it had so many effects but they were GREAT! Just to see them with binoculars was exciting. Wow it takes me back! Thanks for this thread.
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As a JW Were you Counseled on Grooming, your Dress or Hair Styles ?
by flipper injust another controlling feature of a mind controlled cult.
they always dictate that everyone should look like clones of one another - the same.
from early on i remember my elder dad in the late 1970's telling me as a teenager , " you are an elders son ; little brother jimmy over there looks up to you as an example.
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Bubblie
Wonder what they do now with young people showing up with tattoos and everything pierced? I remember a new publisher getting told she didn't have on enough underwear. She wasn't wearing a bra and didn't need one (her girls looked great.) Anyway, she was very upset that they noticed so you know where they were looking! I think she stopping coming to meetings and got smart. I have since tried to contact their family but most of them don't want anything to do with the dubs. I wanted to tell them I left, too.
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Think the JW cult is bad? Check out this one!
by JimmyPage inhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwhlvtwhum0.
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Bubblie
We all enjoy a good laugh on our Sundays don't we! Thanks JP. Hey Purps could that have been Mickey Mouse?
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Beatles Fans
by watson inthis is the one:.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cab4x4brhxk&feature=related.
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Bubblie
Homerovah thanks for Still my guitar gently weeps. Jimmypage the kids are doing okay, huh? Kinda spooky that they look very close to their Dads. I can't get anything done today from watching all these that I missed last night while sleeping. Must go. Hey Leolaia it was the early sixties that is what was going on then, LSD and maryjane.
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Beatles Fans
by watson inthis is the one:.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cab4x4brhxk&feature=related.
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Bubblie
Watson, thank you so much for putting something from the Concert for George on this thread. That is one DVD I didn't get in my divorce. I cried when I opened my Christmas gift from his brother this year and it was a copy of it. I love his family they are so sweet to me. Anyway, was George your favorite, too?
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Has anyone been affected by the poor economy?
by heyfea inevery weekend we used to spend a few hundred dollars going out to lunch.
but since less than a year, we no longer go out.
my husband business has been very slow, and on top of that, the management companies he does work for, do not pay him right away.
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Bubblie
My health insurance ran out yesterday. Since, my divorce and I have moved to Chattanooga, TN the economy here is bad. There are lots of foreclosures on houses all over the place. The job availability is horrible. I am trying to find a job that will give me benefits, everyone tells me good luck on that. I will try to keep looking since it could happen. Also trying to watch my spending. I left most of my furniture and realized too late that I should have taken more. It is expensive to buy a sofa & dining room set, when you aren't sure you will be able have money for the important things (electric, gas, water, phones, etc.) I did get half of the house money so I do own my own home now. I will keep looking for a job or health insurance I can afford. I'm like you HeyFea don't go out to eat as much as I used to because it is so expensive. However, I will not eat at McDonald's. How about you?
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As a JW Were you Counseled on Grooming, your Dress or Hair Styles ?
by flipper injust another controlling feature of a mind controlled cult.
they always dictate that everyone should look like clones of one another - the same.
from early on i remember my elder dad in the late 1970's telling me as a teenager , " you are an elders son ; little brother jimmy over there looks up to you as an example.
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Bubblie
I was once told my skirt was too long and they may think I was a Mormon if I wore it in the field! Can you believe that? I loved that skirt it was really warm. Then, if you had a part on the assembly they went over everything you had on as if a police inspection. My friend was told not to wear boots the next week. So what, that it was snowing outside. She brought special shoes next week like a good little dub.