the beauty of my neighbourhood? how about the sexy man in whose arms i wake up every morning.... :)
chellechelle
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The Natural Beauty of Your Neighborhood
by compound complex indear friends,.
one of my greatest enjoyments is a daily walk.
i see things in far greater detail than when i am driving by.
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Why I suspect most people do not really believe in god
by Elsewhere ingrowing up as a jw i never really believed in god.
i thought everyone else didn't really believe either.
when some sort of religious activity or speak was going on i was just pretending and i thought everyone else was pretending too.
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chellechelle
i jsut started talking to my aunt again recently and she hates witnesses, but she strongly believs in god so i found it hard to talk to her without being rude or anythign since i do not. but really i agree i dont think anyone really 100 percent believes in god i think they jst use it to make themselves feel better or make some kind of control over their lives. that way they have somethign to blame their mistakes on. dont worry god will save me.. and no matter how shitty their life is going. dont worry god will always love me
it seems like a figure of imagination to me. thinka bout it why would man be made in gods imaage. why would god be so fallable and ungodly liek basically. the human form is not a bvery desireable one there are lots of better more interesting and more life sustainable forms one could take. hence god was made in mans image. because ita all in your head
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chellechelle
i like this explaantion even though i dont believe it. akhenaton was a radical pharoh the first to be prtrayed in true form, became a monotheist and had an extremly weird shaped head. so one conclusion which i actually learned in school is that he was an alien.. lol so aliens were very much part of the egyption goverment. so aliens with their advanced technoilogy built the pyramids thats why we dont know how they did it properly yet..
hahahaha i cant believe i learned that in school
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If it's really "so close to the end"....
by cameo-d inwill they ever announce that the world wide preaching work is finished?.
will they fill that gap with something else, like "new system" lessons?.
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chellechelle
i dont think they would ever announce the end of the preachign work or it kinda violates their whole point. they want to convert everyone. and at 6million and falling out of 6billion that doesnt seem like good odds
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Wow, just seen Jan 09 Kingdom Ministry can they get any more controlling?
by eyeslice inwow, i've just seen my wife's copy of the jan 09 new format kingdom ministry.
can they get any more controlling?.
how to handle every part is detailed giving absolutely no room for any personal input or freedom to express any ideas other than copyrighted watchtower thinking.. .
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chellechelle
they are loosing more memeber s then ever before right now. they need to keep as tight of a grip as humanly or godly possible heehee. they dont want peopel to start thinking for themselves or interpresting what they are reading. if you are not allowed to come to your own comclusions that is not a belief it is a forced indoctrination
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Spirituality Spot Found in Brain ?
by Rabbit ininteresting...there's enough info here to whittle down both the athetists and the fundamentalists!
enjoy !
different strokes for differently wired brains -- what a concept.
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chellechelle
this does not mean there is a spiritual spot in the brain this just means that people who are unsure of themselves are more likely to head towards religion. but that is extremely obivous. when someone such low self esteem they want to feel better to belong and be loved. hence door way to a cult. its a big family... suppsoedly anyways.. untill you ddo something wrong and they kick you out like dirt off thewir boots
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Cheers to all of you who celebrated your first Christmas ever
by Newborn inlike myself.. i loved it.
can i fall any deeper into this wicked system???.
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chellechelle
this was my first christmas and it was awesome. and now that i ahve two familys thanks to my wonderful boyfriend ( mincan on here ) i spent the mornign at my grandmas for breakfast and presents and then the afternoon at his grandmas sisters and all the rest of the family. as well as his uncle and sunts the next day for yet another christmas dinner. the food was amazing everywhere, and its nice to get presents :)
for me its not about the present its about beign with the people you love. so i was so greatful to be able to spend it with the man i love... theres a first for everything thsi year... <3
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Does abscence really make the heart grow fonder?
by mtsgrad ini need to know..... .
would love your opines.. .
mtsgrad
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chellechelle
possibly but for me all it did was make me not able to sleep. be a computer hound so i could talk to him.. but that was before we were living togehter
now i cant sleep more then three hours if hes not beside me... i hate sleeping alone.. no it doesnt make me love him more... all it does is reinfoce in your mind how amazing ther eperson is. cause you know everything your missing and cant wait to get it back
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Ladies - Educate us Men - What Do you Want From your Man ?
by flipper inso i started this thread on another board too.
we have a sizeable number of people - men and women not in a relationship perhaps here.
ladies - what is it that you want in a relationship emotionally, mentally, sexually, and materially ?
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chellechelle
oh i forgot one...
kiss me :)
kisses on the forehead are the sweetest...
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Ladies - Educate us Men - What Do you Want From your Man ?
by flipper inso i started this thread on another board too.
we have a sizeable number of people - men and women not in a relationship perhaps here.
ladies - what is it that you want in a relationship emotionally, mentally, sexually, and materially ?
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chellechelle
ok are you prepared because this is going to be long,
i want to be able to open up entirely emotionaly the problem is you have to be totally100% comfortable with someone to be able to do that,..... im almost there theres about five percent left to go. im not going to say i want a man to opent he door for me and allways know exactly when i feel bad and shower me with kisses cause that is not realistic.
-if its obvious that i feel like shit ask me whats wrong? i dont need to you hold me until i feel better cause that could be for a long time... the most important thing firstly is that i know u care, thats what something like that tells me.
-know how to listen even if you think what im talkign about is stupid. sometimes all a women needs to do is vent.. all you have to do is add an isee in there every once in a while and your set. but dont just pretend. that pisses us off. actually listen, and we will do the same.
-do the dishes or vacuum every once in a while or something to that effect, major brownie points there (lol)
-ask what we want to do sometimes, and actually do it cause you know we do things we dont want to do all the time for you
-even if we fight always make me feel like you still love me. i dont ever want to go to bed angry. especially when you are someone like me with depression its never a good thing. a fight never has to include anything personal or anything derogatory. personally i think you can solve issues without a fight in the first place even if either of you are angry
-Tell me you love me, all women know their partners do but when its actually said to you theres no better feeling, in my experiance atleast.
-try to understand my point of view even if ts wrong. dont just tear me to peices but try and see what i mean why i feel that way about a certain situation
-be cuddly once in a while its lovely
-this is very important.. realize that when i have my period i am gonna be emotional so the thigns you do even if not bad will effect me more than normally and i might be a crazy bitch. so try not to yell at me for it... we will usually tell u ahead of time anyways, if you cant tell on your own
-if im crying give me a hug... dont have to hole me the whole time.. but a hug makes me feel better
now for the random things
-keep the facial hair its sexy
-same with chest hair( manscaping is weird)
- dont get mad over sex... if anything is ever weird we understand it jsut as much as your do. we all learned the same things.
-remember the clitoris!!!! yes you can have an orgasm during sex from hitting the g spot etc. but if u start to go towards the clit for a while and then stop...... no... never stop it feels to good. let us have that atleast.... clitoral orgasm please. basically if you start it. you have to finish it!
-this is jsut a tip basically. masage earns major brownie points :)
-understand love
theres lots of other thigns i could say but none of these thigns are extremely important the random ones i mean. there is no perfect man or women. all i ever want is love and understanding. you could be the msot incredible asshole to me one day andill still love you. love is not dependant on someones temporary actions... understand love. know that the only reason id ever leave you was if you were abusive or cheated.. nothing else matters cause all can be worked out. if i love you ill see past all your little quirks and problems and i wont care. sure it might bug me sometimes butthat doesnt mean that if you piss me off during the day i wont love you the same amount as i did when i woke up in your arms.
the most important thing to me is let me know im loved. i could have the shittiest possible day. but if i come home at night and go to bed snuggled in beside yuo. all of that will melt away. cause really where would we ever rather be, then with the man we love :)