serenitynow!
I sure hope it doesn't come across to his family/friends as you described. Such was not my intent.
Even in my opening post near the end you can see where I had typed if he does die, not that he will.
That is why even in the thread title I put in honor of Ray not in memory of Ray.
I'm hoping he pulls through and that both he and his family will be able to go back and look at these threads
over the last two days and see how much love and support is being sent to both he and his wife during this
health crisis.
And hopefully he will see that people that had never met him in person were so affected positively in their life by his
words and actions, were willing to put their own lives on hold, to be there to try and provide some form of comfort
and support for his wife,whom he dearly loves.
I can't speak for him, but I know it would mean a lot to me if something I said or done had helped even just one person
and they in turn tried to be there for my wife in her time of need and sorrow.