What makes you think we all get over it ?
Have you ever had a mother,father,brother or sister die and someone says something along the lines of in time you'll get over it.
No in time you don't get over it., In time the pain eases but never goes away.
You'll always miss them.
Same with me being raised a JW. There was/were always things I wanted to do as a youth but never got to. (school sports, dating a couple hot girls in High school that took interest in me but didn't get a chance to because of being a JW etc)
Now I'm much older those opportunities are gone but not forgotten.
I now do the things I enjoy and try to experience life to the fullest at my age but still think of what may have been from time to time if i'd learned the truth about "the truth" (TTATT) at a much younger age.
So here's my advice for what it's worth.
Next time someone tells you to "just get over it", ball up your fist and punch them as hard as you can in the face and then tell them to just get over it.
Nothing like driving the point home and if you need to do it a few times instead of just once, remember what we were taught from the platform as a JW....repetition for emphasis...you may have to do it a few times for them to get the point.
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How do you get over all the things that you missed? The stuff you can't get back
by JW_Rogue inlook my life is not bad but sometimes i just think about all the normal things i missed out on.
and no i'm not talking about christmas and birthday parties.
i'm talking about your first kiss happening in your twenties instead of your teens.
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A request to our members living in the USA - Time Magazine
by pale.emperor ini have a request to our friends living in the usa.
im trying to track down an article printed by time magazine in which they interviewed fred franz.
in my local library here in liverpool they have a massive bound volume collection of time going back to the 1930s.
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Just wondering if you searched under Time Magazine articles Archive
Here is what popped up when I did and it says it goes back to 1923 and says complete.coverage if I read it correctly. Hope this helpsThe TIME Magazine Vault
Check out the online archives of TIME Magazine: complete coverage since 1923 of ... Library, goes to Sandymount beach to take the air," the article summed up. -
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Steve Hassan. Can some one verify if this is true.
by joe134cd inhttps://culteducation.com/group/1289-general-information/8227-disclaimer-regarding-steve-hassan.html.
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I too sometimes have questioned motives of people that want to "help" others and then you find out the cost or price involved.
One of the things that appealed to me about the bible when i was a believer was how Jesus supposedly said you received free give free.
Then we know about the Apostle Paul being a tent-maker to provide for himself and not wanting to be a burden to anyone. Those things are what attracted me to the "word'.
Then I read about how many on here bought Ray Franz book Crisis of Conscience (CoC) and how it cost to produce books and such, which is a given and yet these same ones would say things about how Ray would respond back to their letters,e-mails and phone calls all free of charge. That made an impression on me.
It kinda let me know that he had expenses to pay as we all do but at the same time he really wanted to help others even when there was no money to be had or made.
I can only go on what others have said about him because I never got the chance/opportunity to meet or talk to him in real life. (I count that as a great loss) The videos I've seen of him all seem to bear this out as well.
But getting back to my point,sometimes even the best of intentions can allow celebrity,fame and/or greed to slowly creep in and derail what started off as a worth-while cause.
I really hope this is not the case with Steve Hassan and many others out there but only time will tell I suppose.In the meantime keep making whatever truth you find out there your own. Irregardless of what the source.
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If I shared this video on FB, do you think my JW family would get mad since it's about nature?
by StoneWall inone of my 'worldly' fb friends shared it under the caption "when you promised her round 2 but gave it all in round 1"who knew that even monkeys have 'performance' issues?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ipdgwqou7am
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One of my 'worldly' FB friends shared it under the Caption "When you promised her round 2 but gave it all in round 1"
Who knew that even Monkeys have 'performance' issues?
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Hello all
by WhiskeySix ini am new to this site and wanted to say hi.
my wife and i are recently disassociated.
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Welcome Whiskeysix!
It's always great to see someone else escape and break free of the Watchtower.
When a couple can come out together that is just awesome.
At this juncture of your journey in life, do you and your wife consider yourself as believers or non-believers?
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One of the best vid's I've ever seen for debunking and disproving Jehovah's Witnesses
by StoneWall inas some of you know i'm not a religious person at all after leaving the jw's but there was a link on another site i was on and the link was to a pastor's vid.
(about exposing jw's as false prophets etc)being that i'm not at all interested in hearing a sermon, i was going to just leave the site and continue researching some other stuff but then curiosity made me wonder if he truly knew anything about jw's or was just going to be another religious leader downing jw's in an effort to make his version of the "gospel" sound more appealing.i have to admit i was pleasantly surprised at the extent of his knowledge of scripture that jw's like to use as well as the history behind the organization.
many of the points he brought out we've covered here before and he arranged them in an easy to understand and follow sequence.i'd be interested in hearing what some of you think on the job he did on exposing the jw's(wt)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3o56jwgbjk.
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Nellis I agree totally about there being thousands of videos out there if someone is willing to look because i personally have checked out probably close to the hundred mark if not higher.
That is why I give this one a passing mark.
I knew just the fact that this was done by a "Pastor" that somewhere along the lines he'd get in a jab or two about what he believes because after all he is in front of his congregation.
But the thing that impressed me about it was he went all the way from C.T. Russell (first prez of the WT society) down through 1914,1925 dates along with the predictions,speculations and other outlandish things the Society had said/written with the quotes and documentaion to back it up, then all the way up to the 1975 fiasco and beyond without making it seem like Information Overload to me.
All within a time frame of some 40+ minutes. (Less time than the average public talk at a Kingdom Hall years ago)
Mickey mouse I also agree with your comment about the interest starting about the 7 minute mark.
I like to post the whole vid so no one can make the argument I edited something out etc..
Basically the first few minutes are him exchanging greetings,pleasantries and being cordial with his congregation.
I personally didn't have a problem with that but in the interest of time if any want to skip the first approx. 7 minutes and get into the discussion about JW's please feel free to do so.
Even though I'm not a believer or religious it still is nice for me to see people treat others with humanity and respect whether they are Theist/Atheist or Deist. So the first few minutes not being in-depth discussion did not bother me in the least but i understand everyone's time is limited and valuable.
Also thanks to everyone for your comments and feedback.
My hope is if this Pastor can deliver something like this that others will do so at their respective places of worship to keep many other families from becoming enslaved to the JW's (WTBTS)
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One of the best vid's I've ever seen for debunking and disproving Jehovah's Witnesses
by StoneWall inas some of you know i'm not a religious person at all after leaving the jw's but there was a link on another site i was on and the link was to a pastor's vid.
(about exposing jw's as false prophets etc)being that i'm not at all interested in hearing a sermon, i was going to just leave the site and continue researching some other stuff but then curiosity made me wonder if he truly knew anything about jw's or was just going to be another religious leader downing jw's in an effort to make his version of the "gospel" sound more appealing.i have to admit i was pleasantly surprised at the extent of his knowledge of scripture that jw's like to use as well as the history behind the organization.
many of the points he brought out we've covered here before and he arranged them in an easy to understand and follow sequence.i'd be interested in hearing what some of you think on the job he did on exposing the jw's(wt)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3o56jwgbjk.
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As some of you know I'm not a religious person at all after leaving the JW's but there was a link on another site I was on and the link was to a Pastor's vid. (about exposing JW's as false prophets etc)
Being that I'm not at all interested in hearing a sermon, I was going to just leave the site and continue researching some other stuff but then curiosity made me wonder if he truly knew anything about JW's or was just going to be another religious leader downing JW's in an effort to make his version of the "gospel" sound more appealing.
I have to admit i was pleasantly surprised at the extent of his knowledge of scripture that JW's like to use as well as the history behind the organization. Many of the points he brought out we've covered here before and he arranged them in an easy to understand and follow sequence.
I'd be interested in hearing what some of you think on the job he did on exposing the JW's(WT)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3o56JwgBJk -
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New to this. But not the life.
by Irocz ini just joined this sight today.
i'm hoping to find people here with similar experiences or have experience with similar situations or just any advise or feedback.. first.
my quick life story.. i was born into jw.
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StoneWall
Welcome Irocz.
Glad to have you and thanks for sharing some of your JW story.It really is amazing now how much information is out there about the JW's if only a person is willing to search it out.
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What do you think is the source of your consciousness? Can it be copied or transferred?
by EndofMysteries inthis seems to be a question that even scientifically is still in the air.
right now your consciousness, is it the physical part of the brain?
the electrical signals in the brain?
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Think of this in relation to what others have said about cloning or putting our brain patterns in another form.(fleshly or robotic)
When you cut certain starfish a specific way and remove their arms, they can regenerate complete whole new bodies.(in time) Is the starfish that you started with the same now? Are the duplicates now sharing an intellect/instinct?
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10 Weird FACTS about Orgasms
by StoneWall inwho knew all this data and research was being compiled on both male and female orgasms.some of this goes very much against our jw upbringing as far as health and fitness of the human body.yet it makes so much sense, like less prostrate cancer in males that have more than one orgasm a week etc..and guys next time your woman says she isn't in the mood because she has a headache, show her this research of the best way to relieve those headaches.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tm0q7kmzuoi.
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Who knew all this data and research was being compiled on both male and female Orgasms.
Some of this goes very much against our JW upbringing as far as health and fitness of the human body.
Yet it makes so much sense, like less prostrate cancer in males that have more than one orgasm a week etc..
And guys next time your woman says she isn't in the mood because she has a headache, show her this research of the best way to relieve those headaches.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tm0Q7kmZUOI