Lari I agree we all live with a double standard if a guy does this he is sweet, if a girl does it I am afraid she would be labeled as desperate and pathetic. I don't even know if any guys would admit to not having a valentine. I guess she could get away with it if she was really cute. But even though the guy in my story was attractive I think any guy out there could do this with the same results.
Interesting perspective BBoyneko but I don'think she would have appreciated him half as much as we did. I think he did it for emotional gratification not sexual. But then again I am saying that from a womans perspective. I guess that is what I would like to believe.