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  Alone at new years eve again

  by Pleasuredome in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  new years eve 1996 was the last time i enjoyed a new years eve with a girlfriend.

  even though i wasnt into celebtrating it in a major way because of the jw influence on my life, it was a really great time to be with someone i cared about.

  1997 onwards i became involved with the jws and of course i couldnt become involved with a worldly girl, so i became celebate.

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  hybridous

  Pay no attention to those who would dismiss your feelings, my friend. Many of us feel that void at different times all thru the year...you just happen to feel it now.

  My advice is to indulge yourself in something (preferably not self-destructive) which brings you relief and pleasure. Do you play music? Or write? Do it...and do A LOT of it. As for me, New Years has fallen out of favor for a variety of reasons - mainly, I can't tolerate a spitting headache and an upset stomach....that's just me, though.

  One more thing....do something nice for someone. I don't mean spend a lot of money...just put yourself out there for someone. You will enjoy the rewards, regardless of wether you are with someone for the New Year or not.

  Good luck,

  HYBRIDOUS
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  Baptism Age

  by JH in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  do you feel as if children in the watchtower organization get baptized too early in age?

  when you think that in most places, you have to be at least 18 years old to vote, go in a bar, or have a drivers licence.

  being told that it was the most important day of our life, wouldn't it be reasonable to wait to be at least 18 years old before getting baptized.

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  hybridous

  Well, they're trying to folow Jesus, right?! So then be just like him...baptized at 30!!

  Seriously, tho...the numbers would suffer if kids had to wait 'til 18. I think that about 1/2 the current number of kids would actually go thru with it, if they had to wait until 18. All that time to think about it...Geez!!
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  The coming "disassociations"

  by Elsewhere in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i have seen several threads about how the elders are going to be going around asking people if they still consider themselves to be jehovah's witnesses.

  this will undoubtedly result in multiple da announcements in the coming months.

  i'm curious how the average jw will perceive this and respond to it.

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  hybridous

  With all the bad news here....combined with a good amount of rumor and speculation, of course...do any of you 'in the know' expect there to be any implications or consequences for those of us who were never baptized?
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  Two Elders Came to Visit this Afternoon

  by Scully in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  ..... and i missed it!!!

  arggggggggggghhhhh.

  anyway, hubby was out front fixing the christmas lights when two jws approached him in the driveway.

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  hybridous

  Forgive my ignorance, but....

  What would've been the harm in answering the question...'YES'??

  'Yes, we still consider ourselves JWs, now be gone.'

  If you can stomach lying to people who would gladly lie to you....what would've been the harm in answering 'yes', if only to preserve peace in the family?

  If it meant keeping my relationship with my family somewhat steady, I'd lie my ass off to those idiots. Maybe this is a wrong game plan.....I don't know...
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  I'm an Alcoholic

  by Bhagavad in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  if any of you has said that to yourself, would you please share any of your experiences and trials you've had -- and what kind of discussion groups you may have participated in -- in order to keep your promise to abstain completely?

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  hybridous

  I wonder if I'm an alcoholic...

  I'm going thru a gut-wrenching change of life, and....yes, when I get home from work....I usually want to drink until I feel good. I don't usually do it, but I sure want to an awful lot lately. What do you think?
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  Music, doesn't it fill such a need :)

  by LyinEyes in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am sitting here listening to my kazaa, finding old songs that i had forgotten i even knew at one time.

  music to me has always been an outlet for expression, even thou the words and music belong to someone eles.

  it can help me to work thru my emotions in ways like no other .

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  hybridous

  If music has such an important part in your life....if it really enriches your life...take a step back and be thankful.

  For me...it's one of the few things left that I have left in this life, that brings me some comfort and happiness.
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  GB disassociates itself!!

  by lulu in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  dear brothers:

  as you have admitted, the watch tower bible & tract society did join the united nations as a non government organization in 1992 ending in 2001, and according to the following watch tower this means that by their own actions they disassociated them selves from jehovahs organization which means that we must treat them like disfellowshiped ones.

  in other words they are no longer jehovahs witnesses or have any right to that name.

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  hybridous

  'My church...right or wrong.' Remember that one?

  That's what he means by 'standing up' for the WT.
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  Which "APOSTATE" Site Helped You Out ...

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  h2o and watchtower observer were the ones that helped me the most.

  of course, jwd is the best discussion forum on the net.

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  hybridous

  When I first started looking.....Freeminds and the old H2O saved my life. Literally. Thanks, guys.

  Now, I lurk here most often, but I try to 'make the rounds' , so-to-speak, when I have the time.
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  Pagan Practices

  by Satanus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  many of you pagans get your spirituality, or a portion of it from nature.

  which nature objects/places work the best for you?

  i'm into rivers, trees, flowers and sunsets.

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  hybridous

  I'm with Larry....the STARS are simply incredible.

  Try to look at them on a cool (or cold) night, when the air is still. If you can, get away from towns or cities or other sources of light pollution. Give your eyes some time in the dark to adjust. It's good for perscpective.
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  How do you feel about your JW friends?

  by sleepy in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  how do you feel about your friends you left behind and in the organisation and who now shun you?

  do you feel they are still your friends, and are just doing what they think is right?

  would you ,if shunning was dropped and they now wanted to have contact again accept them back as friends?edited by - sleepy on 18 august 2002 10:14:43.

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  hybridous

  I miss them. Actually, I'm not shunned because I was never a real JW, but they still feel uneasy around me, since I made a big exit. I'm sure they feel like they SHOULD be shunning me, but the WT rules don't apply.

  I miss them, and I pity them...as I see them squandering their lives and talents by living the JW lie. We had some great times together as teenagers, and I'm glad for those memories. It seems that my memories of those days differ in context from my friends'. But that's OK, since the price I paid was a comfortable JW ignorance, and the prize I gained was truth.

  I love them, and I hope they both: wake up from the JW lie, and piece together a life upon acknowledging that lie and deal with the truth the best they can.

  I won't count on that happening. But I will be a better friend than the WT will ever allow them to be.