Appreciate your comments thomas15,
Laughed at your comment about the book having the potential to "probably cause a brain explosion"! This is so true in the case of a JW who has not been exposed to the real issues as the WTS always just demonises apostates - they never elaborate what the disagreements with their teachings are so this breeds fear and ignorance.
You are right "it comes down to either the Truth of the Bible or the truth of the WT. The two truths are not in agreement" - getting a JW to educate themselves about where the scriptures deviate from the WTS teaching is the problem as they have been convinced that they don't understand the Bible and that Jah has set up "His Organization" to provide understanding.
I have reasoned with some that the things that are important are plainly stated by Jesus for Christians in the Bible - they require no interpretation - why would God have provided the book if the critical things are convoluted requiring some interpretation by imperfect humans? The things that are unclear (like Revelation) must not be that important for us otherwise it would have been made clear...
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Advice please: Would you loan your copy of Crisis of Conscience to your JW friends or create awareness/curiosity about its existence?
by LUKEWARM inabout 12 months ago i ordered the book.
i thought i was sinning against god - showing a lack of faith in him and in his organization.
i prayed to jah to forgive me but i was curious as to why a person, who spent over 50 years in full time service, was of the anointed and served on the governing body left "gods organization".
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Drama Topic for 2009 DC. Here's the scoop.
by Open mind inooh, ooh.
who wants to know what the drama's about?.
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Thanks OM
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Advice please: Would you loan your copy of Crisis of Conscience to your JW friends or create awareness/curiosity about its existence?
by LUKEWARM inabout 12 months ago i ordered the book.
i thought i was sinning against god - showing a lack of faith in him and in his organization.
i prayed to jah to forgive me but i was curious as to why a person, who spent over 50 years in full time service, was of the anointed and served on the governing body left "gods organization".
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Sorry, this one might be a little easier to read...
BabaYaga
Thank you for your words of wisdom – you have summed up my situation nicely!
Yes, it worries me that my passion about the newly found truths will alienate them. I want to free them from the unnecessary slavery to a human organization which has gone “beyond the things written” and imposed “traditions of men” on its membership under the guise of “Jah’s Theocratic Law”.
So far, I have given “Crisis” and “Christian Freedom” to one close friend (Elder) recently. His eyes have been opened reading the first book – he can no longer parrot the WT line and is now questioning what to believe. We have had numerous discussions - I tell him the second book (still in the closet) will crystallise everything for him beyond reasonable doubt. He tells me he will get around to reading it but I sense the uneasiness as he comes to terms with the gravity of the real truth sets in and he faces his own crossroads.
Thanks for suggesting I investigate cognitive dissonance and the Hassan book as I want to help other friends and I need all the help I can get!
leavingwt
Your comments are interesting about the org being one part of the equation - the mind control is the other part. I guess my focus has been on doctrine and the org as I assumed the other part would naturally follow…
Have heard about Hassan but have not got around to purchasing his material. I understand he has written 2 books. Do you recommend I read both?
Black Sheep
I feel sorry for them – they are brainwashed as I once was, so am trying to keep talking, posing questions, and providing snippets of research which they can process. As you rightfully indicate, once somebody is viewed as “spiritually weak” or is in the process of fading, the things said no longer carry any weight…
purplesofa
Thank you for your comments and well done on your progress!
Can you elaborate more on how you have made/introduced all those placements and what the results have been?
You are right that it would be inappropriate to push my view on others. My objective here is to tactfully arouse their curiosity and interest about the real truth and as such to educate themselves about the issues. What they choose to do after that is their prerogative.
My approach has been to introduce something that “I found interesting” and telling them that “I would be interested in their thoughts” – even to correct me if they feel my thinking is wrong…
Your caution is warranted though…
garybuss
You are a Meany J
Jabberwocky
Good thinking and it would be appropriate to have this in a library, although I was thinking of capitalising on friendship and reputation to assist my immediate friends and those I care for to see the truth while we are still around…
Your suggestion about the 2 chapters of “crisis” available online are good! And the PDF version is a possible progression depending on their reaction to read the free stuff first – thank you!
Jamiebowers
I’m sorry to hear of your situation and I wish I could help your mum! Seems like the Hassan book is valuable – will look to buy it before we go on holidays so I can read it thoroughly, educate myself and apply the methodology. What avenues did you think would work on your mum?
Bizzybee
Thank your lovely response and compliments! You use the word “envy” but sometimes I feel selfish for holding back – in this instance worrying about being disfellowshipped if the weakest link seeks the help of the elders due to a troubled conscience resulting from my “placement”.
Yes, these are people the Mrs and I are close with and they feel free to express themselves in our company considering we are liberal in the way we talk about the JW treadmill of activity eg “oh another boring service meeting and they never finish on time”
The “ham and eggs” analogy is a good one as its always difficult to play those damn cards right or if they should be played at all! MidwichCuckoo
You are spot on! I only became aware of Ray Franz on this site – they have no idea that he exists and his style of writing is dignified and powerful…
JWdaughter
Thank you for your post and good suggestions!
I wonder if they would order the book if left to their own devices – yeah in 10 years when they are exhausted from being on the organizational treadmill they might remember our conversations and investigate…
I know what a huge barrier it was for me to purchase the book considering I viewed it as “apostate”! But I figured the “truth” should and can stand up to anything. How wrong I was!!
As you say, it’s a fine line between giving them this info and getting myself DF’d…
Agh, I would hate for it to blow up but at the same time if my friend had this info and did not share it with me because of the potential cost to him/her personally then how selfish and uncaring would that be!!
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Advice please: Would you loan your copy of Crisis of Conscience to your JW friends or create awareness/curiosity about its existence?
by LUKEWARM inabout 12 months ago i ordered the book.
i thought i was sinning against god - showing a lack of faith in him and in his organization.
i prayed to jah to forgive me but i was curious as to why a person, who spent over 50 years in full time service, was of the anointed and served on the governing body left "gods organization".
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BabaYagaThank you for your words of wisdom - you have summed up my situation nicely!
Yes, it worries me that my passion about the newly found truths will alienate them. I want to free them from the unnecessary slavery to a human organization which has gone "beyond the things written" and imposed "traditions of men" on its membership under the guise of "Jah's Theocratic Law".
So far, I have given "Crisis" and "Christian Freedom" to one close friend (Elder) recently. His eyes have been opened reading the first book - he can no longer parrot the WT line and is now questioning what to believe. We have had numerous discussions - I tell him the second book (still in the closet) will crystallise everything for him beyond reasonable doubt. He tells me he will get around to reading it but I sense the uneasiness as he comes to terms with the gravity of the real truth sets in and he faces his own crossroads.
Thanks for suggesting I investigate cognitive dissonance and the Hassan book as I want to help other friends and I need all the help I can get!
leavingwtYour comments are interesting about the org being one part of the equation - the mind control is the other part. I guess my focus has been on doctrine and the org as I assumed the other part would naturally follow...
Have heard about Hassan but have not got around to purchasing his material. I understand he has written 2 books. Do you recommend I read both?
Black SheepI feel sorry for them - they are brainwashed as I once was, so am trying to keep talking, posing questions, and providing snippets of research which they can process. As you rightfully indicate, once somebody is viewed as "spiritually weak" or is in the process of fading, the things said no longer carry any weight...
purplesofaThank you for your comments and well done on your progress!
Can you elaborate more on how you have made/introduced all those placements and what the results have been?
You are right that it would be inappropriate to push my view on others. My objective here is to tactfully arouse their curiosity and interest about the real truth and as such to educate themselves about the issues. What they choose to do after that is their prerogative.
My approach has been to introduce something that "I found interesting" and telling them that "I would be interested in their thoughts" - even to correct me if they feel my thinking is wrong...
Your caution is warranted though...
garybussYou are a Meany :)
JabberwockyGood thinking and it would be appropriate to have this in a library, although I was thinking of capitalising on friendship and reputation to assist my immediate friends and those I care for to see the truth while we are still around...
Your suggestion about the 2 chapters of "crisis" available online are good! And the PDF version is a possible progression depending on their reaction to read the free stuff first - thank you!
JamiebowersI'm sorry to hear of your situation and I wish I could help your mum! Seems like the Hassan book is valuable - will look to buy it before we go on holidays so I can read it thoroughly, educate myself and apply the methodology. What avenues did you think would work on your mum?
BizzybeeThank your lovely response and compliments! You use the word "envy" but sometimes I feel selfish for holding back - in this instance worrying about being disfellowshipped if the weakest link seeks the help of the elders due to a troubled conscience resulting from my "placement".
Yes, these are people the Mrs and I are close with and they feel free to express themselves in our company considering we are liberal in the way we talk about the JW treadmill of activity eg "oh another boring service meeting and they never finish on time"
The "ham and eggs" analogy is a good one as its always difficult to play those damn cards right or if they should be played at all!
MidwichCuckooYou are spot on! I only became aware of Ray Franz on this site - they have no idea that he exists and his style of writing is dignified and powerful...
JWdaughterThank you for your post and good suggestions!
I wonder if they would order the book if left to their own devices - yeah in 10 years when they are exhausted from being on the organizational treadmill they might remember our conversations and investigate...
I know what a huge barrier it was for me to purchase the book considering I viewed it as "apostate"! But I figured the "truth" should and can stand up to anything. How wrong I was!!
As you say, it's a fine line between giving them this info and getting myself DF'd...
Agh, I would hate for it to blow up but at the same time if my friend had this info and did not share it with me because of the potential cost to him/her personally then how selfish and uncaring would that be!! -
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Advice please: Would you loan your copy of Crisis of Conscience to your JW friends or create awareness/curiosity about its existence?
by LUKEWARM inabout 12 months ago i ordered the book.
i thought i was sinning against god - showing a lack of faith in him and in his organization.
i prayed to jah to forgive me but i was curious as to why a person, who spent over 50 years in full time service, was of the anointed and served on the governing body left "gods organization".
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About 12 months ago I ordered the book. I thought I was sinning against God - showing a lack of faith in Him and in his organization. I prayed to Jah to forgive me but I was curious as to why a person, who spent over 50 years in full time service, was of the anointed and served on the governing body left "Gods Organization". Well what a shock I was in for!
Mrs Lukewarm and I are still active JW's (family reasons), mentally disconnected from the religion and are becoming increasingly indifferent about the treadmill of works the organization prescribes.
As our decision comes to the pointy end, I have been thinking about the many friends we have in the "truth". I want to help them become aware of the real "truth" while we are still around as they wont be as receptive when we start to fade...
I find that asking questions starts them on the road of thinking for themselves instead of the 'Boys in Writing' doing all their thinking for them.
We have liberal discussions, and as we have all been raised in the "truth" they readily acknowledge that they would probably never have become witnesses if exposed to JW via the preaching work as adults.
Been using the watchtower recently (sometimes during or right after the meeting or sending them SMS or email) asking my friends something like: Did you notice XYZ in paragraph 11? How did they come up with that when the Bible says ABC...
There is so much to talk to them about and I am using every opportunity to tactfully introduce some truth about the "truth" I have meditated on, comparing it to the Bible. They listen, process the information and agree with what I am saying.
Conversation starters:
Organ transplants - people died for what when they were banned in the 60's? Blood fractions - why ok to use donated blood and where did they come up with the approved fractions list?
Why is preaching work urgent when half of world's population is not being witnessed to? How will God judge these people? What is our 30 second presentation really achieving? Is God going to judge people on the basis of listening to our magazine presentation? Why are we preaching a different 'good news'?
"Generation" teaching - new light in 95 that it related not to 1914 but to wicked people living at a certain time, then in 2008 changed that to the "anointed"? Did God reveal error to them? How could they be wrong if they are directed?
Why do they stress works when bible says that salvation is gods GIFT through faith in Jesus? Will belonging to an organization save us or faith in Christ and living as best we can to please God?
Why do we need to report our "service" time to anyone - Didn't Jesus teach that worship is between the individual and God? etc etc...
They agree and realise that we would be in trouble if the "elders" found out about out discussions and say jokingly that we are "bad" and rebellious witnesses and that Jah will destroy us.
I want to stop the 'drip feeding' and introduce them to "Crisis of Conscience" as this will educate them about the issues better than I ever can and help them in making an informed decision about their own situation.
They are decent people who see the errors in the organization but are misled (as I once was) in believing they are in "Gods organization". The book will shatter that illusion for them just as it did for me.
My worry is, if I loan them my copy of the book and it results in a troubled conscience or marital problems because one partner is more attached to the organization and go to the elders for help, I may be implicated as the provider of the material and face judicial action which I do not want.
Is it better to arouse their curiosity by stating that I have become aware that a governing body member has left the organization after 50 years of service, was unfairly disfellowshipped and has since published a book which I want to read as it details what happened...hopefully they may do their own research and order the book!
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Congregation "Bible Study" Comments - Week Commencing 18 May 2009
by LUKEWARM in*** lv chap.
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Interesting how freely you can use copywrited material in violation of ceasar's laws while bashing those who willingly submit to his laws regarding taxation, etc. The only thing we avoid is being "part of the world" If we don't pay taxes it's because ceasar's laws allow us not to. Besides what great witness is it to have your tax money spent on killing and plundering around the world anyway?
Michael, surely there is no infringement of copyright considering the source has been acknowledged and only 6 paragraphs are included not the whole book.
As far as taxation is concerned, you have a validly state that the WTS legitimately uses Ceaser's laws not to pay any tax and that some of the tax money collected is misused.
The point I was trying to make is that WTS do very little charitable activity/public service in comparison to other churches that are tax exempt. So since they do not contribute much to the community and generally to society, but avail themselves of all the services available, is it fair that they should they get tax breaks?We do show love for our enemies by witholding close association from those whose conduct denies a desire to live according to bible standards. Even Paul would not allow someone to be called a brother who was a fornicator, idolator...........Please explain....how is it loving to give tacit approval to harmful or self destructive behaviour?
Can you imaging the father of the prodigal son, upon seeing his wayward son approaching the home, rather than running out and embracing him as he did, insting that the son first be screened by a committee of three before expressing parental interest and affection?
You mention (1 Corinthians 5:11-13):
"But now I am writing YOU to quit mixing in company with anyone called a brother that is a fornicator or a greedy person or an idolater or a reviler or a drunkard or an extortioner, not even eating with such a man. 12 For what do I have to do with judging those outside? Do YOU not judge those inside, 13 while God judges those outside? "Remove the wicked [man] from among yourselves." The Apostle Paul was not talking about persons claiming to be Christians who have at some time been guilty of of an act or acts of immorality, greed, drunkenness or similar wrongdoing, rather persons claiming to be Christians who ARE immoral, who ARE greedy, who ARE drunkards etc. Getting drunk on one occasion does not make one "a drunkard" and in the same way an act of immorality does not automatically make one "a fornicator" or "immoral person". He is talking about a continuing course of conduct or a characteristic of a person.
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Blondie's Comments You Will Not Hear at the 05-17-09 WT Study (VIGILANT)
by blondie inhttp://exjehovahswitnessforum.yuku.com.
http://www.jwsupportforum.com/index.php.
http://www.jehovahswitnessrecovery.com/.
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Excellent comments Blondie!
12. "It is his judgment against hypocritical religion that for so long has taught doctrines contrary to God's will..."Little does the WTS realise the judgement it will face for blasphemy as it has clearly gone "beyond the things written" and imposed "traditions of men" as burdens on their members -
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HOW THE ORGANIZATION HAS LASTED THIS LONG...
by Mary inthis is in response to a post i did on another thread about the borg not having as much swagger as they used to.
it was suggested that i post it under a new topic so here it is.
it's a brief summary of the decades and how they've managed to get away with claiming that 'the end' is nigh for over 130 years now.
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Great post Mary!
Older people have died and the WTS's uninspired record has not come to light for the next generation of followers. The internet has changed all that and is certanly their worst enemy now as they cannot control access to the truth about the "truth"
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Congregation "Bible Study" Comments - Week Commencing 18 May 2009
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*** lv chap. 5 pp. 50-53 How to Keep Separate From the World ***
Chapter 5
How to Keep Separate From the World
"You are no part of the world."-JOHN 15:19.
Q1. What did Jesus emphasize during his final night on earth as a human?1. DURING his final night on earth as a human, Jesus expressed deep concern for the future welfare of his followers. He even prayed about the matter, saying to his Father: "I request you, not to take them out of the world, but to watch over them because of the wicked one. They are no part of the world, just as I am no part of the world." (John 17:15, 16) In this heartfelt request, Jesus showed both his deep love for his followers and the importance of his words stated earlier that night to some of them: "You are no part of the world." (John 15:19) Clearly, it was of great importance to Jesus that his followers keep separate from the world!
If "no part of the world" means "keep separate from the world" then why was the WTS involved with this?http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk/2001/oct/08/religion.world
http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk/2001/oct/15/religion.unitednations
http://www.towerwatcher.orconhosting.net.nz/unfax.jpg
Q2. What is "the world" to which Jesus referred?2 "The world" Jesus mentioned refers to all of mankind who are alienated from God, ruled by Satan, and enslaved to the selfish, prideful spirit that emanates from him. (John 14:30; Ephesians 2:2; 1 John 5:19) Indeed, "friendship with [that] world is enmity with God." (James 4:4) How, though, can all who want to remain in God's love be in the world yet be separate from it? We will consider five ways: by remaining loyal to God's Kingdom under Christ and neutral in worldly politics, by resisting the spirit of the world, by being modest in our dress and grooming, by keeping our eye simple, and by putting on our spiritual suit of armor.
[that] - Why do they add to the Bible as they please?
What does "No Part of The World" really mean?http://www.escapefromwatchtower.com/world.html
REMAINING LOYAL AND NEUTRALQ3. (a) How did Jesus view the politics of his day? (b) Why can it be said that Jesus' anointed followers serve as ambassadors? (Include footnote.)3 Instead of participating in the politics of his day, Jesus focused on preaching about God's Kingdom, the future heavenly government of which he was the prospective King. (Daniel 7:13, 14; Luke 4:43; 17:20, 21) Thus, when before Roman Governor Pontius Pilate, Jesus could say: "My kingdom is no part of this world." (John 18:36) His faithful followers imitate his example by giving their loyalty to Christ and his Kingdom and by announcing that Kingdom to the world. (Matthew 24:14) "We are therefore ambassadors substituting for Christ," wrote the apostle Paul. "As substitutes for Christ we beg: 'Become reconciled to God.'"-2 Corinthians 5:20.
Are JW the only ones "announcing that Kingdom to the world"? and are they even preaching the same message Jesus and disciples preached?http://www.jwfacts.com/index_files/preach.htm
[Footnote]Since Pentecost 33 C.E., Christ has served as King over his congregation of anointed followers on earth. (Colossians 1:13) In 1914, Christ received royal authority over "the kingdom of the world." Hence, anointed Christians now also serve as ambassadors of the Messianic Kingdom.-Revelation 11:15.
Q4. How have all true Christians demonstrated loyalty to God's Kingdom? (See the box on page 52.)4 Because ambassadors represent a foreign sovereign or state, they do not interfere in the internal affairs of the countries where they serve; they remain neutral. Ambassadors do, however, advocate the government of the country they represent. The same is true of Christ's anointed followers, whose "citizenship exists in the heavens." (Philippians 3:20) In fact, thanks to their zealous Kingdom preaching, they have helped millions of Christ's "other sheep" to "become reconciled to God." (John 10:16; Matthew 25:31-40) These latter ones serve as Christ's envoys, as it were, in support of Jesus' anointed brothers. As one united flock advocating the Messianic Kingdom, both groups maintain strict neutrality toward the world's political affairs.-Isaiah 2:2-4.
The hypocrisy of the WTS is incredible when they say: "they do not interfere in the internal affairs of the countries where they serve"http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/friends/56712/1/Watchtower-Society-joins-Political-Lobby
So bringing people into the organization has "helped millions of Christ's "other sheep" to "become reconciled to God."
Box on page 52]EARLY CHRISTIAN NEUTRALSSecular history provides ample evidence that the early Christians remained politically neutral and refrained from warfare. Says the book The Beginnings of Christianity: "The founders of Christianity guarded with sedulous care against the development of anything like a disposition to interfere directly with the established political order." Similarly, the book On the Road to Civilization notes: "Early Christianity was little understood and was regarded with little favor by those who ruled the pagan world. . . . Christians refused to share certain duties of Roman citizens. . . . They would not hold political office."
Regarding the early Christians and military service, German theologian Peter Meinhold said: "Being a Christian and a soldier was considered irreconcilable." In his essay "An Inquiry Into the Accordancy of War With the Principles of Christianity," religion writer Jonathan Dymond wrote that for some time after the death of Jesus, His followers "refused to engage in [war]; whatever were the consequences, whether reproach, or imprisonment, or death." Dymond added: "These facts are indisputable." Only when "Christianity became corrupted," said another writer, did Christians become soldiers.
Q5. How is the Christian congregation different from ancient Israel, and how does this difference manifest itself?5 Loyalty to Christ is not the only reason that true Christians are neutral. Unlike ancient Israel, which had a God-given land allocation, we are part of an international brotherhood. (Matthew 28:19; 1 Peter 2:9) Thus, if we were to rally to the side of local political parties, both our freeness of speech in regard to the Kingdom message and our Christian unity would be severely compromised. (1 Corinthians 1:10) Furthermore, during war time, we would be fighting against fellow believers, whom we are commanded to love. (John 13:34, 35; 1 John 3:10-12) With good reason, then, Jesus told his disciples to lay down the sword. And he even told them to love their enemies.-Matthew 5:44; 26:52; see the box "Am I Remaining Neutral?" on page 55.
How do JW's follow Jesus admonition to "love their enemies"?[Box/Picture on page 55]AM I REMAINING NEUTRAL?Principle: "My kingdom is no part of this world."-John 18:36.
Some questions to ask yourself
? How would I explain why saluting the flag is a form of idol worship?-Exodus 20:4, 5; 1 John 5:21.? When explaining my nonparticipation in certain national ceremonies, how would I show my deep respect for those who do not share my beliefs?-1 Peter 3:15.
? What are my reasons for not supporting any political parties or performing any type of military service?-John 13:34; 1 John 3:10-12.
Q6. How does your dedication to God affect your relationship with Caesar?6 As true Christians, we have dedicated our life to God, not to any human, human institution, or nation. Says 1 Corinthians 6:19, 20: "You do not belong to yourselves, for you were bought with a price." Thus, while rendering "Caesar" his due in the form of honor, taxes, and relative subjection, Jesus' followers give "God's things to God." (Mark 12:17; Romans 13:1-7) This includes their worship, their whole-souled love, and their loyal obedience. If necessary, they are ready to give up their life for God.-Luke 4:8; 10:27; Acts 5:29; Romans 14:8.WTS does everything possible to avoid Caesars "Taxes" like any other organization
http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/friends/174940/1/Ramapo-denies-Jehovahs-Witnesses-tax-exemption
http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/friends/8374/1/WTS-CORP-LIST-BIG
"As true Christians, we have dedicated our life to God, not to any human, human institution, or nation" In the mind of the JW this of course this does not include the WTS, otherwise Brooklyn would not have so much control over them.
"...give up their life for God" or for not saluting the flag, nonparticipation in certain national ceremonies or some other WTS interpretation?Lukewarm
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My JW Daughter sends a Letter to us Explaining her Shunning of Me
by flipper inmy wife and i sent my 22 yr.old pioneer witness daughter and her husband a anniversary card and $ 40.00 and flowers the end of april.
my daughter wrote mrs. flipper and me each our own individual letters thanking us initially for the gifts - and then went into detail as to why she has not spoken to me for over a year and shunned me.. keep in mind as i paraphrase some of the highlights to these letters that the only negative thing i have said about the organization to my daughter in 3 years was to show her the ap news release about the child abuse settlements by the wt society .
i'll quote parts of the letter to mrs. flipper first :.
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Like your style pubsinger and seems you have received some good advice so far Mr Flipper!
Perhaps you can mention to her that you have not told her the full story about why you are not going to meetings. You didn't want to burden her with your problems...the truth is that you are feeling depressed - you have been praying to Jah about your feelings of worthlessness because you feel you are not doing enough...
Seek to engage her emotions and endeavour to meet face to face to talk...
Go slow and take baby steps as you introduce matters that you have been meditating on - matters that you have been praying to Jah about tearfully eg R. Jensen letters
http://www.ajwrb.org/watchtower/index.shtml
Your daughter will try to help you and this is when the penny might drop!
Best wishes to you
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