When I asked earlier how we can connect with JWs who have doubts, what I meant was how do we identify them?
If you start spreading non-WT questions or teachings indiscriminately at the KH, you'll be outed and ostracized so fast you won't have time to connect with the people who are really open.
IMHO seek opportunities to introduce thoughts - don’t challenge them in any way just make the conversation about you – but time is the issue and the lack of motivation to be on the worthless JW treadmill of works seeking these opportunities… Here is what has worked a treat for me: (1) Be known as a reasonable and open minded individual. Don’t come across as “this is right and this is wrong” kind of thinking. You’re a person that understands that there are plenty shades of grey
(2) Have several one on one conversations with individuals to identify where there head space is at – in the process make people feel comfortable in your presence – dignify them, seek their opinions etc
(3) After several conversations, create an opportunity to introduce a thought or 2 from that “householder or relative who asked you a question”, a question you were embarrassed with as you had no answer for - eg they asked you" "were you not preaching a few years ago that the 1914 generation wont die out before the end" or "why was your organization involved with the UN?" etc
(4) Tell them you then did research on the subject and ….(in the case of the UN, the matter checks out on the UN website, on the generations our thinking has changed 5 times already…)
(5) Let them know that you enjoy when people challenge your thinking because over time you have needed to change the way you think to become more “balanced”.
(6) See where the conversation goes – and if they open up with anything. Seek to build on that next time around…
(7) Patience is a must as they can only take small doses of this stuff. Resist your eagerness to share learning's and convey information too quickly which has the propensity to backfire. Taking things slowly is the key - but there are no guarantees (8) It takes many different subtle comments over a long period of time to chip away at the mind control and encourage Witnesses to think for themselves and stop just parroting the official WTS line. Once they are in a position to do so, then material can be introduced that can educate and truly liberate them... The ones I talk to see many of the issues but all the negatives have not stacked up yet for them to view the organization as useless.
Its impossible to convince others - they will have to make that voyage of discovery themselves - and this is where I feel I can assist to provide info that I found interesting. I'm hoping that this information can help to accelerate their learnings and awareness so they can make informed decissions...
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