Interesting excerpt from DD's stanford link:
Evolutionary theory ... tells us that the boundaries between species are vague.
Which is the point I was trying to make with my (foundering) dog analogy
And it tells us that a number of forces conspire against the existence of a trait in all and only the members of a species. From a biological perspective, species essentialism is no longer a plausible position
I think this is really a key point. Essentialism runs up against the overwhelming evidence for comment descent (which even Michael Behe, irreducible complexity's poster boy believes).
However, DD's link asserts (and I admit I've only read part of it) that there is no essential feature common to all humans and not found in other species. I have to wonder whether the innate universal grammatical capacity of humans isn't such an essential feature. Animals have varying degrees of communication and rudimentary "language" but none (to my knowledge) have the generative capacity of syntax that is unique to ALL human languages.
If that's the case, then one might suggest that the line be drawn where language ability began to manifest itself.