Posts by Violia
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81your favourite Christmas music , and merry Christmas to you all
by jhine ini am perhaps a bit behind on this but i have just listened to " grandma got run over by a reindeer " sung by elmo and patsy .
it got me to thinking about christmas songs in general ,so i thought a thread about people's favourite christmas songs would be good .
please share your fave christmas music , a carol or something more modern .to start i will list my best carol as hark the herald and my best ever chart song as santa claus is coming to town by bruce springsteen .
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your favourite Christmas music , and merry Christmas to you all
by jhine ini am perhaps a bit behind on this but i have just listened to " grandma got run over by a reindeer " sung by elmo and patsy .
it got me to thinking about christmas songs in general ,so i thought a thread about people's favourite christmas songs would be good .
please share your fave christmas music , a carol or something more modern .to start i will list my best carol as hark the herald and my best ever chart song as santa claus is coming to town by bruce springsteen .
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your favourite Christmas music , and merry Christmas to you all
by jhine ini am perhaps a bit behind on this but i have just listened to " grandma got run over by a reindeer " sung by elmo and patsy .
it got me to thinking about christmas songs in general ,so i thought a thread about people's favourite christmas songs would be good .
please share your fave christmas music , a carol or something more modern .to start i will list my best carol as hark the herald and my best ever chart song as santa claus is coming to town by bruce springsteen .
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your favourite Christmas music , and merry Christmas to you all
by jhine ini am perhaps a bit behind on this but i have just listened to " grandma got run over by a reindeer " sung by elmo and patsy .
it got me to thinking about christmas songs in general ,so i thought a thread about people's favourite christmas songs would be good .
please share your fave christmas music , a carol or something more modern .to start i will list my best carol as hark the herald and my best ever chart song as santa claus is coming to town by bruce springsteen .
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your favourite Christmas music , and merry Christmas to you all
by jhine ini am perhaps a bit behind on this but i have just listened to " grandma got run over by a reindeer " sung by elmo and patsy .
it got me to thinking about christmas songs in general ,so i thought a thread about people's favourite christmas songs would be good .
please share your fave christmas music , a carol or something more modern .to start i will list my best carol as hark the herald and my best ever chart song as santa claus is coming to town by bruce springsteen .
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your favourite Christmas music , and merry Christmas to you all
by jhine ini am perhaps a bit behind on this but i have just listened to " grandma got run over by a reindeer " sung by elmo and patsy .
it got me to thinking about christmas songs in general ,so i thought a thread about people's favourite christmas songs would be good .
please share your fave christmas music , a carol or something more modern .to start i will list my best carol as hark the herald and my best ever chart song as santa claus is coming to town by bruce springsteen .
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Violia
for dagney and me and all us Tim Minchin fans
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JW caregiver married grandfather with dementia
by Paige2014 ini am so angry and i need to vent.
a jw who was hired to be a caregiver for my grandfather in the early stages of dementia went and married him over the objection of family, the gal and the va social worker.
this happened several years ago.
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Violia
Paige
he can transfer anything he wants to to anyone at anytime. Now, if it is within the 3-5 year time window of him needing medicad- or going into a nursing home etc, THEN they will disallow it and cry foul. I speak from experience of the system.
for example, your dad dies and you expect mom might need a nursing home within 5 yrs or so. go to a lawyer and he will help you transfer things to the kids and get things out of moms name. that way, WHEN time does come for the nursing home, they can't touch her property. This is totally legal and done all the time.
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your favourite Christmas music , and merry Christmas to you all
by jhine ini am perhaps a bit behind on this but i have just listened to " grandma got run over by a reindeer " sung by elmo and patsy .
it got me to thinking about christmas songs in general ,so i thought a thread about people's favourite christmas songs would be good .
please share your fave christmas music , a carol or something more modern .to start i will list my best carol as hark the herald and my best ever chart song as santa claus is coming to town by bruce springsteen .
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JW caregiver married grandfather with dementia
by Paige2014 ini am so angry and i need to vent.
a jw who was hired to be a caregiver for my grandfather in the early stages of dementia went and married him over the objection of family, the gal and the va social worker.
this happened several years ago.
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Violia
Metatron,
I think you make some excellent points. If he older gentlemen is happy and well cared for , they are getting a good deal. It costs a lot to get good care and it is hard ( not impossible) to buy love or anything that closely resembles it. She is working hard for her money.
In our state if he has to go to a nursing home he can keep a home in the community( the idea being he might get well enough to return to it). If he owns any other property or cars etc over certain amounts ( very low amounts) medicaid ( esp where I live) will make you spend down ( pay for the nursing home out of your own cash by selling your possessions and using all your available cash.
Anything that they want to put in someone else's name must be done within 3-5 yrs before needing nursing home care or the state looks at your "gift" of a large amount of cash or an extra house to your son very supsiciously and will disallow it. It used to be 3 yrs , it may be 5 now, it can vary by state. So, unless she is seeing a lawyer and he is helping her find a way around this -- the state getting all his money, they will. Many people do this, after all, if you worked hard all your life who do you want to get the extra house you own, the state or your family?
We had a older brother in this area marry his nurse to save the cost of paying for one. As they were both jws , it worked for them. You can hate them and the kids did but it is his life and his money.
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your favourite Christmas music , and merry Christmas to you all
by jhine ini am perhaps a bit behind on this but i have just listened to " grandma got run over by a reindeer " sung by elmo and patsy .
it got me to thinking about christmas songs in general ,so i thought a thread about people's favourite christmas songs would be good .
please share your fave christmas music , a carol or something more modern .to start i will list my best carol as hark the herald and my best ever chart song as santa claus is coming to town by bruce springsteen .
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