apostates:
happy birthday
happy holidays
sex talk
cursing
this is not to be critical just an observation apostates tend to be overzealous about these things. It's a way of identifying, it's semiotics, a signal saying I'm an apostate.
There must be more for apostates and I know JWs have thousands of signals to ID eachother.
Crazy is doing the same thing over and over again when it doesn't work.