Thanks for your help and tips everyone, you guys are so kinds and very understanding i'm on my way of typing my letter out hopefully this will work..
Peaches1978
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Has anyone ever ratted out there family member to the socitey for talking to a disfellowhipped family member?
by Peaches1978 inhi everyone, the reason why i ask this question is (aka i've been defellowshiped for 16 years now) because within the past month my mom and brother and sister which are witnesses (after going to the famous assembly )have been bugging me, i've tried to do it in a nice way and tell my dear mother to leave me alone stop calling me and dont come around my house.
she won't listen, i have never been close to my family or have had a relationship with them.. so it' doesnt bother me that they dont talk to me.
but my point is that they need to follow their own rules.
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Has anyone ever ratted out there family member to the socitey for talking to a disfellowhipped family member?
by Peaches1978 inhi everyone, the reason why i ask this question is (aka i've been defellowshiped for 16 years now) because within the past month my mom and brother and sister which are witnesses (after going to the famous assembly )have been bugging me, i've tried to do it in a nice way and tell my dear mother to leave me alone stop calling me and dont come around my house.
she won't listen, i have never been close to my family or have had a relationship with them.. so it' doesnt bother me that they dont talk to me.
but my point is that they need to follow their own rules.
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Peaches1978
thanks everyone for your replys. trust me when i say that my family is not a loving one that misses me. my mom allowed and covered up the sexual abuse from her ex husband and it was swept under the carpet with elders back then. this is something that i'm going to confront her very shortly if she keeps on harrassing me (she is married now to an elder which has no clue of her past) I have no feeling toward them as family what so ever i've learned to not have feeling for them. but i just want the callings and preaching to stop....
thanks everyone for letting me vent a lil... i have so much held in that is not funny.
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Has anyone ever ratted out there family member to the socitey for talking to a disfellowhipped family member?
by Peaches1978 inhi everyone, the reason why i ask this question is (aka i've been defellowshiped for 16 years now) because within the past month my mom and brother and sister which are witnesses (after going to the famous assembly )have been bugging me, i've tried to do it in a nice way and tell my dear mother to leave me alone stop calling me and dont come around my house.
she won't listen, i have never been close to my family or have had a relationship with them.. so it' doesnt bother me that they dont talk to me.
but my point is that they need to follow their own rules.
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Peaches1978
thanks blondie, but what i find so funny is that my mom has no business coming to my house we have never had a relationship and out of the blue she wants to bug me. i have children and it seems like she wants to play grandma all of a sudden i'm in no way want me children expose to her hypocrocy...
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Has anyone ever ratted out there family member to the socitey for talking to a disfellowhipped family member?
by Peaches1978 inhi everyone, the reason why i ask this question is (aka i've been defellowshiped for 16 years now) because within the past month my mom and brother and sister which are witnesses (after going to the famous assembly )have been bugging me, i've tried to do it in a nice way and tell my dear mother to leave me alone stop calling me and dont come around my house.
she won't listen, i have never been close to my family or have had a relationship with them.. so it' doesnt bother me that they dont talk to me.
but my point is that they need to follow their own rules.
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Peaches1978
Hi everyone, the reason why I ask this question is (aka i've been defellowshiped for 16 years now) because within the past month my mom and brother and sister which are witnesses (after going to the famous Assembly )have been bugging me, I've tried to do it in a nice way and tell my dear mother to leave me alone stop calling me and dont come around my house. she won't listen, i have never been close to my family or have had a relationship with them.
so it' doesnt bother me that they dont talk to me. but my point is that they need to follow their own rules. i even went and printed out articles and bible refences regarding how to treat a disfellowhipped person. (which i find to be bulls@#$%T) and emailed this informaton to them. beleive it or not i starting geting threating letters from my brother. saying that i need to understand the truth inorder to read the articles and know what they are meaning? it was about 8 pages of info, which i knew he didnt bother to read and look up the bible references.
I was like what the heck he sounded so stupid with the that last sentence. i told him wow even my dog can read and understand the awake article. I told him i have a 4 year degree and education to understand common sense unlike you who never went to college.
so my question to you guys are how can i go about to writing to the soceity to let them know that their members are harrassing me and not following there rules regarding the disfellowshipped policy........ have anyone of you guys in this form ever had to go through this........I would appriciate your comments and suggestions.
Thank you,
Peaches.
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Saw this on TV and thought i'd share...
by dudeson inhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tp2op844ni0.
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Peaches1978
omg. I miss Al. that show was funny.....
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First shunning today!
by sooner7nc ini'm at work right now.
i'm out walking the halls at the hospital i work at checking on my workers, making sure that everything is being cleaned properly, etc.
i turn down one hallway that passes in front of one of the diagnostic departments, and i see someone, an elders wife, sitting there waiting to be seen by the radiology staff.
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Peaches1978
sooner7nc I aswell work in a hospital and is full of JW's they think by shunning me it hurts me I laugh at it and still say hello just to get on there nerves seeing them twitch like if satan is saying hi..... funny.....
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Is it always about them? (The JWs in Honduras)
by easyreader1970 inwhat follows is an email that has been going around to witnesses for a month or so.
it may have even been posted to this forum and escaped my notice.. anyway, apparently there is some civil unrest in honduras which, according to this email, has disrupted the activity of jws in that country.
what i always find amazing is that jws always conclude that everything that goes on in these countries that negatively impacts them was definitely started by satan and always for the direct purpose of slowing down or stopping the preaching work.. .
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Peaches1978
funny how the GB and WT use what ever they can to put fear in the congo and make it seem like they are being attached by satan. the polictial party never said that they can't preach or have their group meetings. it was their decision to stop all activity for there saftey. but i can see how there going to twist things around to their convince. how nice really....
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Wheee!!! spent a lovely evening with JW family *rolls eyes*
by Odrade inor not, as the case may be.
in-laws' family members were visiting from out of town so we went over for the evening.
my uncle-in-law is extremely religious.
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Peaches1978
I think if you were to tell him that your now an apostate. omg he would of shout his mouth up quick and left... That should of worked. it worked on my mother... havent heard from her in a week... im so happy......
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A good friend of mine was df'd this week.
by wha happened? ina good friend of mine was df'd this week.
he did so much for this organization.
as an accomplished musician and composer, he has contributed so much over the years.his work is in most of the homes of an avg jw.
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Peaches1978
can anyone post the lyrics?
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More Quotes in the WT from Supposedly Rank and File bros and sisters?
by youngapostate ini've noticed that lately (maybe as of a year ago or so) there have been personal quotations in every single study article.
it seems a brother or sister always sends in the exact quotation that would fit perfectly into an article.
has anyone else noticed this?.
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Peaches1978
Those quotes are surely made up. anyone can tell a story and since when a blood transfusion is a satan-given tempation? they just love to make things up dont they and sure enough everyone in the borg believes it and swallow it.