I've grown up with two very distinct groups of JW young people.
One group who was leading a sort of double life, fully into the things of the world,
and another group of do-gooders who wanted to please parents and KH folks and
who thrived on positive attention. Unfortunately I had too much negative attention
forced on me, because I did draw attention and liked the confrontation. I was always
the dramatic one, the one to blow it all out of proportion and to make a big fuss about
any real or perceived injustice or unequal application of the rules.
As I've grown up a lot more and don't desire so much attention, negative that is,
I've learned to understand the non-conformist youths a lot more and to also
see through the double-faced do-gooder masks other youths had.
They were all pretty much leading a double life, they had to, but some were
more obvious and some knew how to hide it better.
There are some who grow up to be uber-witnesses but these are the minority.
Quite a few of the young ones in my home congregation just gave up, disappeared
and today they're not even spoken of, their memory is forgotten, as if they died.
It is sad to think that so many still keep in touch through facebook that would
otherwise never have any other contact with each other because some fell away
or never got baptized and went on with their lives and some remained in the
"congregation." Facebook is quite an eye opener, and you get to see that
most young Witnesses are like any other young kids around, except more
sheltered and more desperate to find who they really are as people. This is
a different type of consciousness, isn't it?