I tried my hardest, spending hours pampering, touching, stimulating (I can last a lot longer than two minutes) but to no avail.
oh reely.... (just kidding)
In the end I just gave up. Now, at the age of 41, I am resigned to never having sex again because I can't make love to a woman that can't enjoy the act - the main reason for sex, in my opinion, is the sharing of pleasure, it should never be one-sided; and without that sharing there is no point to it.
oh, don't give up. anyone with your philosophy shouldn't give up. don't let one bad experience destroy your ardor. 41 is way too young to resign yourself to never again experiencing the joys of sexual pleasure and true intimacy. not all women are like that, you know.