I agree with Outlaw..
Pick up the phone and let him hear your voice
a couple of months back, my son asked me to get in touch with my jw/elder father.
he is planning a trip to colorado to visit his mother's family there, and thought it would be good to see his grandfather.
since i have no contact with my father, i asked my cousin to broach the subject with him.
I agree with Outlaw..
Pick up the phone and let him hear your voice
sorry for the long title.. i don't belive this will happen for a second.
but its an interesting question.
there you are at armargeddon, and god asks you " why you left the jw's?
I would say..knowing you as I do....As a God of Love and Justice. I knew you would never accept or approve of the lack of love and the lack of spiritual Justice my child received from the shepards after she was molested by one of there own.
I sure hope not! They are early teens and we are fading out...hopefully, they will live their own lives and be who they should be and not who we tell them to be :)
some questions....feel free to answer any or all of these.
have your views of gay people changed over the years?
do you have or have you ever had gay friends?
I never could be one of those people that talked badly about those who were gay. I have always been one of those people who asked why, before I judged..and like some who commented already, I was raised around kids who at the early age of 4 and 5 who didn't fit in with their gender. I played with boys who just loved dolls and never touched a dump truck. I knew girls who would have rather died, then put on a skirt! I watched them grow into who they were and yes they turned out to be gay and I didn't care and still don't care.
I do think it's a trend with some, but I have known too many to know that for some... it's who they are. Just as I am, who I am.
it's tied, 1 to 1. i'm with the green team over lala boys.
my prediction it'll be celtics in best out of 7..
I'm in Southern California and my husband and son are pulling for the Celtics...so sick of the Lakers, 3 years in the finals are too much for them
well - i had been wanting to do this for a long time , to question a legal department representative at bethel about the child abuse settlements and jw child abuse, since last year when the news came out about it.
especially since my dad , an elder for years was never aware of it and has on his own taken steps to see that families with children are informed if a former pedophile is in their congregation.
i was curious as to what the current views and policies in place are .
Wow flipper, this was really good. Thanks for the expose
hahaha i just recieved a certified letter , an invitation to a little party known as a jc at the local geneseo ,il kingdom hall of jehovah's witnesses to discuss the matter more fully that i refused to discuss with an elder on the phone about .
come to our party june 23 held in your honor ...yea right !!.
so our certified letters will be received on the same day sweet !
Wow! Nothing they do shocks me anymore...
I'm happy you have a good attitude about it. I'll do the same if they come after me.
As I have told my sister, if they want to get rid of me they will do it themselves...I owe them nothing.
I bet you feel as if a weight had been lifted off you
i have learned in my life that i am the only one i can trust to stand up for myself .. many times i wished others would have 'had my back', like when i was seven and my favorite teacher committed wrongful contact with my class....we didn't know the term pedofile back then , and children were not taken serious when they made complaints about teachers .
i wished my mom had been more protective and saved me from some ugly situations .
i knew at 10 yrs of age that wasn't going to be the case .
I hear you troubled mind!! I feel you fustration...I have had many of those same conversations with my husband as well. It's hard to be the only one to stand up and say enough! In the way we need to be done!
Just a few years ago when our daughter was molested I wanted him to drive over to that creeps house and kill him with his bare hands! I wanted to see him turn into some man I knew he wasn't..I married a man that was a kind, calm and controlled... everything I so loved about him I suddenly couldn't stand! It was the hardest thing to face and it very well could have torn us apart at a very horrible time. I had to remember I can't expect him, to be me. The truth is there could only be one of me in a relationship :) I'm the emotional, vocal, do it now person! He's the let's think about it, don't be rash person.
I always enjoy your threads,
(((hugs)))
my experience is in no way remarkeable but i felt like sharing it anyway.
i was raised a jw.
my mom became one the year i was born.
Welcome
i am laughing at my 15 year old neighbor doing the parallel parking practice.
she is a disaster.
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I thought new cars did it for you
I hated that part of the driving test!
I can't believe my son is about to get his permit...I wonder if the neighbors are laughing at him as he walks out to his parked car and starts it up and sits in it listening to music and texting his friends everyday dreaming of the day he could actually drive it.