Posts by freddo

He doesn't mind if a Tsunami he chooses to let happen kills Japanese, Indonesians or Thais. Same with Earthquakes - Haitians, Italians, Nepalese - he's not fussed which nation or race they come from.

He doesn't lift a fat finger for any of them.

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Having a hard time holding my tongue...

by problemaddict 2 in

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...recently.. i'm normally pretty calculated.

my fade is done, my wife is out, my family and friends know, i maintain quite abit of the friendships of those closest to me jw or not, my family isn't shunning, and the few people we have kept it from for other reasons we are calculating how to break it.

(elderly matriarch that we are simply not going to tell so she doesn't die).. but.....all these facebook meme's and stupid feeds about reliance on jehovah, distraction, staying close to his organization, persevering against satan.....its driving me nuts.

freddo

Repeat "staying quiet is good" "staying quiet is good" after me.

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How hard is it to attend a congregation outside of the territory where you live? Consequences for doing so.

by hoser in

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i need to change congregation but stay living in the same place.

any experience with this.

freddo

In the UK if you're in a city or big town with more than a couple of congregations in a small area there is often cross-pollenation and no-one worries. When our old congregation split in 1998 I was asked to be an elder in a "the other half" to the one I lived in just to balance up the numbers of elders a bit.

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just wondering, how many wives of elders had influence?

by sowhatnow in

id wonder how many wives of servants had the upper hand so to speak, on issues, that of course, were supposed to be private, yet gee lets be honest, husbands and wives talk.

its nature.

so if you were a wife of a servant how much did you get involved?

freddo

I never divulged anything about judicial (I hate that word now) stuff or private counsel but I would offload about petty squabbles on the body of elders like one time when the service overseer tried to ban the congregation offering any literature other than what was in the kingdom ministry for that month.

Or the power tripping Presiding Overseer argued with the School Overseer about whether teenagers could give talks in their school blazers or not. (In the UK some schools have their pupils wear a school blazer/jacket with a school crest/logo/badge sewn on the pocket.) Some poorer families - it was the only jacket their kids would have and the PO said it was disrespectful and the School Overseer told him to stop making rules.

I told her those squabbles before pouring myself a stiff one.

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I want to take them down

by cookiemaster in

hey guys!

some of you might know about my latest clash with the elders.

i see the pressure this cult is putting on my family.

freddo

Sorry you're hurting cookie but you won't bring them down. Don't waste your life trying. Now trying to get a loved one out - that is a worthwhile endeavour.

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Convention Cartoon

by freemindfade in

so last night they played the convention cartoon.

there were a few laughs from the audience, overall though people seemed a little taken aback and tight lipped.

like no one gushed about it afterwards, no applause, just like it was nothing new at all.

freddo

I'd rather watch that than listen to the crusty old secretary while he wags his finger at us and gives us a lecture from the Kingdumb Misery. But I guess we'll get the cartoon and the lecture on Thursday ...

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Separated from a loveless Marriage

by PLAYGROUND in

i don't know where to start.

i got married a year and half ago.

some months into the marriage things where discovered.

freddo

PLAYGROUND, Playground, playground...

I was an elder for twenty years. I have been married for twenty five years. I know how it works. Here is my advice for what it is worth.

Do not go back to this man. Listen. I said do not go back to this man. Really listen. Do not go back to this man.

Escape - and never go back to this man. Did you hear me? Leave the area. Do not go to the elders - move congregations. Get a cheap room to live in, get a job. Shut the door in the evening, sit in your comfy chair watch the TV and enjoy the peace. Bored? Lonely? Get another job. Volunteer. Make new friends.

Get support here. We are all crazy from the jw religion but most of us mean well and want to help.

Did I say leave this man and don't go back? If I didn't then I'm telling you to leave this man and don't go back.

Oh and any hassle go to the police. Forget this don't bring reproach rubbish, just do it. Each and every time.

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UK Branch visit 2015

by tamagotchi in

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anyone know anything about it?

apparently it's going to be broadcast live nationally to all the congregations this saturday

freddo

Another yawnfest/bilefest for those that are awake but attending (ABA).

My guess it'll be:-

Song - Listen obey and be depressed

J. Larson - The F&DS are wunnerful and give us a rich spiritual banquet. Now give us all your dough for upstate New York holiday complex and pedo protection... err Worldwide Work.

S Hardy - look how I can shine doing the watchtower and save my skin til I end up in the infirmiary cuz I sure ain't getting through to paradise without a resurrection.

P. Gillies - Branch report - look at all the literature we're printing for the Africans! Give us all your money so we can send them some more. It's not for the new holiday home in Essex, nosirree! Now who can I give the axe to to save some money and save my skin. Listen, payup and be blessed!

M. Sanderson - The GB love you - now don't you go listening to them there naysayers at bitter twisted 'postate central..

Concluding prayer:

Dear Jehovah, please keep the brothers and sisters in the organizational ark. Help them not to stray into the nets of the birdcatcher. We know that apostates are against us but they cannot prevail if we keep close to the organization.

Your heavenly chariot moves at a fantastic pace and we must keep up! Not doubting at all and we ask your blessing on all the bethelites kicked to the kerb err ... volunteering for missionary positions .... errr missionary work because we know they will keep warm and well fed.

Help us build up treasures in heaven, not more kingdom halls and branch offices because we know your son had nowhere to lay his head ... hang on a minute who put that in the script ... I mean even the small amount given by the widow means much to you so how much more would extra dollars mean if we put those in? What's that? Pounds - yes pounds here in the UK - they're bigger than dollars, give us pounds. Yes let us pour out our genuine nard meaning all our worldly resources on the feet of the governing body to help the worldwidework.

We know you support our organization with your heavenly resources and ask that we do too with our earthly ones.

In the name of your son, our lord, my big brother...

Ah-men!