Yeah who are these "experienced elders" they asked?
1. Bethelites who depend on their masters for board and lodging.
2. Brown-nosers who measure spirituality by assembly platform assignments and strutting around being career christians.
GB Flunky: "So Bro. Brown-noser why do these young men in their 20's and 30's become disengaged?"
BB: (wringing hands) "because their parents didn't encourage spiritual goals." (real reasons - they see through the BS/ They want out but do enough not get booted. If their parents didn't encourage them to buy the bullshit hook line and sinker it's because they didn't get to realise the promise of petting lions in their waterside properties while feeding John the Baptist outsize fruit.)