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  JW Women Self-0Loathing - Get a Back Bone

  by Band on the Run in

  1. jw
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  an earlier thread about pants suits for women led me on this tangent.

  women make up the majorty of witnesses.

  they cannot be suppressed without their acquiescene.

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  meangirl

  Yes I agree that the society treats all people as shit but I feel they truly hate women......if you look at "women issues"....... before somebody says men are victims of the things I am going to mention remember they are predominately women issues:

  Rape, child molestation, domestic violence and child rearing.

  Rape: If WOMAN does not scream (I have never heard them say even though this scriptures says woman the same standard would be true for a man raping another man....has anyone ever ead that-nope don't think so) when being raped she has committed fornication.b...WTH. Also back in the 70's and 80's they said twice womankind was to blame for rape because they use boys as sexual playthings when they are little.....again WTF?

  Molestation: Never taken seriously. Must have two witnesses to the SAME account.

  Domestic violence: Women are encouraged to stay with abusive mate because the society says crap like "Can you support yourself if you leave your mate?" "What about your sexual desires?" "What about your children?" Again, WTF?

  Child rearing: The society always puts that on women. At meetings, assemblies how often do you see some women get up again and again with the kids? How often do you see the dad in the family get up with the kids over and over? At one of our assemblies the nursing mother's room was in a freakin closet.....If men breastfed I can guarantee they would have never made a freakin closet the room to nurse your baby. Are there any support groups for new moms in the JW religion? What about understanding postpartum depression and supporting a new mom with that? Again, nope.

  There is a special hatreds towards women in JW land. Just because all people in the org are treated like shit does not diminish the abuse and mistreatment of women. Like I said it is a special hatreds. If Rutherford called women "a bag of bones" or something to that effect and that was the leader at the time what does that tell you? They want women to be loyal dogs. Seen and not heard just like good little children. Men may be treated like shit in the org but not to the degree a women is. They assign NO dignity to women at all.
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  JW Women Self-0Loathing - Get a Back Bone

  by Band on the Run in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  an earlier thread about pants suits for women led me on this tangent.

  women make up the majorty of witnesses.

  they cannot be suppressed without their acquiescene.

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  meangirl

  Yes, women are treated like shit in this religion. Men are treated as all potential for leadership. Males, should choose to not reach out for leadership, are treated as second class. Women, if they show leadership, are told to mind their place.

  Bingo
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  JW Women Self-0Loathing - Get a Back Bone

  by Band on the Run in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  an earlier thread about pants suits for women led me on this tangent.

  women make up the majorty of witnesses.

  they cannot be suppressed without their acquiescene.

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  meangirl

  Well I don't see the governing body, which is made up of all men as "victims" and I don't see circuit overseers, elders or presiding overseers as victims, which are all male. I don't see the eager young asshole wanna be elder as a victim who is also male. Going with your reasoning nobody "made" them take their positions and they can leave at any time.....so the male mysognystic assholes in the religion are "victims" but as you say:

  " The women in that religion allow themselves to be treated that way. That is their choice and some of them are happy with it and I respect their choice. If a woman is not happy with it she has the ability to get up and leave just as the rest of us did."

  So all the men are victims and the women are not? I am a little confused...

  I just think it is interesting whenever there is a thread on how women are treated unfairly, which was the point of the thread how many jump in and for some reason feel the need to defend men in general. Yes I pointed out to bandontherun that she should not make broad generalizations and they we all don't fit in little boxes but her main point, which is the way women are treated in the JW religion is wrong and they should stand up for themselves, agree 100%.

  Many have pointed out why women allow themselves to be treated like that and high control JW groups use the Bible to make women feel guilty for not being in the submissive women mold......I would say that is emotional blackmail and it is wrong. They feel that by submitting themselves to their husband they are in fact submitting themselves to God and that is why they do that.

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  " That is their choice and some of them are happy with it and I respect their choice. If a woman is not happy with it she has the ability to get up and leave just as the rest of us did." You really think some JW are happy with that arrangement.....really? We all know better.Do you also think victims of domestic violence, which are the majority women also have the "ability to get up and leave?".....It is proven that domestic violence and the JW religion go hand and hand....think about it.
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  WT: "Disfellowshipped teenagers = Nadab and Abihu"

  by cedars in

  1. watchtower
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  continuing on my objective sojourn through the latest watchtower study editions, i thought i would write a few words about the article "god's rest - have you entered into it?

  " taken from the july 15th watchtower.

  incidentally, this watchtower is the same one that i discussed on my previous post concerning the society's latest bout of apostate-bashing.

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  meangirl

  Very well said cedars!
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  JW Women Self-0Loathing - Get a Back Bone

  by Band on the Run in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  an earlier thread about pants suits for women led me on this tangent.

  women make up the majorty of witnesses.

  they cannot be suppressed without their acquiescene.

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  meangirl

  I think the point is missed. It's fine if it works in your relationship for the husband not to be as dominat. Surprise surprise that is how it is in my relationship but there is a mutual respect for each other as individuals. However, the point is on this thread is that the society pushes only one acceptable role for women and that is of the passive, submissive role. Have any of you ever seen a publication that promotes the wife to be dominant and the husband to be in submission?.....I think not. So again the point of the thread is not what works for each individual but the the fact that the society continually puts women as the weaker, inferior, submissve and helper role. It would be different if they said "Well as we know it is Unchristian to stereotype. Jesus never did and so following his example neither should we. So we shall leave it up to indivual couples to decide what works for them." However, that has never been said and will never be said by the society because as Ziddina pointed out it is a mysognistc organization threated by strong women. Again the point is not works for you individually but what the SOCIETY promotes that is making the OP angry....just saying.
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  Visiting MIL tomorrow - says she has a present for us!

  by Little Imp in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  we are visiting my husband's parents tomorrow but over the phone mil says she has a present for us.. the only time that she has given us a present in the eight years i have known them was one of the little books we used for the tuesday evening book study, this was presented to me all wrapped nicely in pretty paper.. i just hope that we are not in for a witnessing!.

  if it is another book there is no way i am bringing it home, i don't want any more jw crap in our house.

  we will just conveniently forget to pick it up.

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  meangirl

  LOL, hang in there. What is the saying about gifts?.....It's the thought that counts.....maybe........
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  JW Women Self-0Loathing - Get a Back Bone

  by Band on the Run in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  an earlier thread about pants suits for women led me on this tangent.

  women make up the majorty of witnesses.

  they cannot be suppressed without their acquiescene.

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  meangirl

  Saw this quote and thought it very applicable on this thread:

  Injustice will continue until those who are not affected by it are just as enraged as those who are.
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  Zealous JW nails description of the governing body!

  by roxanesophia in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  recently stopped studying, and stopped in the street to talk to a jw i met during my time studying.

  we were sorta friends (well, in the small way jw's and worldlies can be) and here's how it went:.

  him: "did you have a problem with someone?

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  meangirl

  Love it!
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  JW Women Self-0Loathing - Get a Back Bone

  by Band on the Run in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  an earlier thread about pants suits for women led me on this tangent.

  women make up the majorty of witnesses.

  they cannot be suppressed without their acquiescene.

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  meangirl

  Impressive post trailerfitter
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  JW Women Self-0Loathing - Get a Back Bone

  by Band on the Run in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  an earlier thread about pants suits for women led me on this tangent.

  women make up the majorty of witnesses.

  they cannot be suppressed without their acquiescene.

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  meangirl

  On second thought Bandontherun I don't agree with this:

  "Christ saw that we were created with tenderness and a strong maternal instinct. If we listen to men too much, we are abrogating our created duty to protect children and maintain homes."

  or this:

  "We are smarter than the brothers. Not the same. Smarter. We know our WT better. JW men are low-earners. They aren't men's men. "

  I can understand your point but best not to stereotype anyone. We are all individuals. We all don't fit in little boxes.