Posts by pancakes*

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Were you afraid to go to a bar?

by rebel8 in

someone who shall remain nameless (*cough*snowbird*cough) mentioned she has never been to a bar.. this shocks me.. i was remembering how terrified i was of going to a bar when i was exiting the mother ship.

i was looking for the lightning bolts to get me.

and it was a big nothing really.

pancakes*

I frequently went to bars as a dub, mostly to see bands. Nobody really told us we couldn't go although it wasn't exactly encouraged.

Except when I moved to this town which only had 3 different bars and the elders gave a local needs part specifically saying the name of a certain tav that witnesses were not allowed to go to. It was hard because that was the only place where bands played and it's not like you could go secretely because being a small town witnesses really had a way of finding out everything!

As I started to fade I started going there and I couldn't see why it was so bad.

Nightclubs, now theyre a different story. Theyre horrible...

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Is it safe to say that woman tend to overanalyze relationships?

by asilentone in

pancakes*

I overanalyse ALL the time. Like my boyfriend tells me he's going for a surf and will be back in time to take me to lunch.... nice, I end up checking my phone as soon as it hits 12.00 and always make sure I have my phone on me, wondering whats taking him so long! Then getting upset thinking that he's forgotten about me.... Then I'll ring and he won't answer and I leave messages... but the whole time he's just enjoying his morning surf and not concerned about the time at all. Its so annoying!

Im suprised he doesn't freak out. I'm constantly telling him to take his phone with him because he always leaves it behind and I can't get hold of him and what if there was an emergency or something!

We are really different like that.