Thanks for all your advise. Even for call me a dictator. That's not who I am.
The dilemma started when I remembered my own great pain and hurt feelings when every DNA part in my body after 4 generations JW got protesting.
It's just the point I want to see it from more viewpoints instead of making a one dimensional discission.
That's not bad isn't it.
I'm a 43 year old European husband so don't call me being a dictator. I'm for maximum equality,
realizing the woman is the most beautifull and intelligent part of the universe.
Just being sensetive before changing someone's life forever.
(and now I return mourning about my friend Eduard Sjevarnadze.)
G.