Here an example about the hard stand on shunning, in real life, an Interview in a Dutch newspaper.
The JW father, in real life a man with a very good management job at KLM airways in Amsterdam, tells that his believe is always above the relation with his children. "Jehovah is above everything, even you children", free translated.
See the lovely picture, knowing it means nothing to him when the organizational believe is at stake.
Gorby