I think the life style of an average JW is not that bad at all. Nice people, clean house and garden, clothing. No drugs, smoking.
All the American way of living. A salesman family.
Personaly I think the theocratic school was effective to learn to be a salesman. Our family have respectfull jobs and what we learned is valuable at work.
So the lifestyle is in my opinion not bad at all. The sect treatment and the walt disney style theology is my primary problem with it.
My personal docter said recently to me "try to see the good things, don't be too serious and do some step forward to the witness, it's better for you and the family".
Since then I visit the hall once a month with a big smile and try to be nice to the local JW's.
Because it's not that bad at all 😎
G.