Hi, searcher. I also am a Never-Ex. However, my circumstances means I am butting heads with WT doctrine on a regular basis. This site is a life-saver for me, as it provides the necessary balance to the one-sided pollyanna teaching WTS dishes out in heavy, treacly doses.
I am with you as well, that I would like to make a difference. If I could do one thing, it would be to contribute to the end of the divisive policies at the WTS that cruelly divides families and separates people from their loved ones. I think that is absolutely necessary for an introvert like me to get involved in a good cause, to keep from burying myself in a hole of self-pity. Though I have not experienced disfellowshipping, my life has provided me plenty of experience with manipulation, cruelty, loss, and grief. I am able to sympathize and "put my arm around" the posters I now consider my friends.
About chat. I, too, have sometimes felt like I was completely alone in a crowded room. The best approach is to speak up (which is what I also do in party situations). I have asked my fellow chatters, for instance, if I "smell". It is good for a laugh, and reminds me that I am still part of the human race. Also, keep in mind the time difference. About the time I am ready to type up a storm, everyone else is going to bed. Oops. I mean sleep.
(Amazing, I think searcher is asking Simon to delete this post, not him.)
Edited by - jgnat on 8 September 2002 11:10:45