Blondie comes through again! What a trooper! I look forward to your instalment every week, Blondie. Here are a few of my margin notes from this week's study.
The Christian Family
p. 3-4. Worldly families are dismissed with a broad sweep of depressing words;
"disobedient...without self-control...spousal violence...abuse...neglect...drug abuse... immorality...run away." The article suggests that JW's can protect their families from this by "heeding Jehovah's (read FDS) counsel." I am struck by the lack of specific direction and advice to parents on how they can help their families. Also, note the use of third-person. "Christian couples recognize that they have emotional, spiritual, and physical obligations..." I believe this heavy use of third-person language helps faithful Witnesses to reconcile the discrepancy between the ideal and the real.
I was taught to be a Christian with first-person language. Every illustration and example was brought home by having me think about how it applied to my own life. There was no wiggle room. I had to seriously ponder the consequences of the statement. A discerning Witness using first-person language may have to admit that their family has some distressingly worldly characteristics, and that the WTS has not been the all-encompassing protection it claims to be. That might lead to the next logical step that their family may require more attention than the hours stolen between meetings and studies and door-to-door work. Also, by making the statement third-person, a faithful Witness can confidently repeat that
"All family members meet their God-given obligations...blessing to one another and to the congregation." even if this ideal does not exist in their own home. Or at the local Kingdom Hall.
The Christian Brotherhood
p. 7 Blondie, I notice you picked up on this, too. All the fruits of the spirit that involve grace and mercy (rather than study, meeting attendance, and door-to-door work) is compressed in the short time before and after meetings. How precious.
(Text in red is from the WT article)